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yellow ribbon Especially eHealthy
November 16th, 2007
I dont know what to do. I cant take anything. I cant talk about it cuz i just sound like a blubbering idiot when i cry. I have no firends who will just come over and hang out for no reason. I thought having my grandparents here would be nice but they act like im bothering them when im over. I just wanna be able to hang out and do a puzzle like we use to but if im not unpacking something im being lazy. My aunt cant stand me for more than 2 hrs cuz she has so many pet peeves and i seem to nag everyone of them. My mom doesnt listen to anything I say. Im basically a single parent who gets to talk to my husband 30 mins of each day if im lucky. Wed. night i was talking to the only friend i have in the area who claims shell be there whenever i need her, and she was like so il see you tomorrow and i was like what for? Greys anatomy. So last night i called to be like see u at 9? and she was like o i dunno im hanging out with anna. so i was upset and was like but i thought u said u were coming over, and she said i will see u later. so i called her at like 920 and she didnt answer. she calls me today like nothings the matter and i told her i was mad cuz she said she was coming then didnt and was ignoring my calls, couldnt even tell me nm i think im not coming over, just ignored me. now shes saying im being unreasonable and b*tchy cuz im mad. i really cant stand to have anymore ppl just let me down. i cant do this anymore. i just want to run away. i just dont know where to go. im seriously so close to packing up the car and just driving somewhere. not answering my phone and just letting everyone go.

sorry for using the word like so many times, i just cant think straight
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kaiteo
replied November 16th, 2007
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I'm so sorry. I understand what you're going through. My friends are like that. I need new friends. :[
Every time somebody says they are going to visit me, they sometimes do, but most of the time I call and they're like "oh, well actually I had plans with so and so" and it just really hurts. PM me if you need anything. Or if you have AIM, my screen name is iron lamb.

Feel better, hun.
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tinkinpink84
replied November 16th, 2007
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i know how ya feel, i have a friend but problem is she is over all the time and stays the night she has 2 kids and so do i and she is lazy and a slob so im cleaning up after 5 people , her and her 2 kids and my 2 kids, luckily well not luckily lol but she has a bad stomach bug so i havent seen ,he rmuch lately thank goodness, hopefully it gets better for u, if i lived near you i would so hang out with u lol but im soooo far away Sad
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Emma2
replied November 16th, 2007
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I honestly once again think it's the hormones dani!
Sometimes we all feel like the world is agaisnt us. Take a deep breath!!!!!!!
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tinkinpink84
replied November 16th, 2007
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i always have days like that nancy, i dunno i think sometimes we just get overwhelmed with things and just want itall to be right, but life doesnt work that way ever. sometimes i just rather not have any friends at al then deal with the few i got lol
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Emma2
replied November 16th, 2007
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Life never seems to work as we plan or want.
We all have our days . We all have our issues with family , friends and co-workers.
I feel completely alone at times and I find coming here helps .
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HcoBrunette06
replied November 16th, 2007
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I love you Dani, I AM here for you anytime you need to talk. I'm not home as often as I used to be, but anytime you need to talk you can pm me!
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sandyallen
replied November 16th, 2007
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I am sorry Danni and everyone else that is going through this with your family and friends! Just know that alot of us are her for you. Probably alot of it has to do with the holidays and your hubby being gone and other things. I know that it is not easy. Feel free to vent anytime!
Hugz!
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vanessalouanne
replied November 16th, 2007
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Hey girl,
i know how rough if is when your hubby is gone and it feels like you have no help and no good friends. I get like that all the time. being pregnant and then having two kids and then having your husband gone is bound to catch up with you. I think what your feeling is very normal. Im always here if you want to talk!
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tiamccoy819
replied November 16th, 2007
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I know exactly how you are feeling...my friends always say they will call or come over and they never do. All the do is get drunk and end up passed out at someones house and dont remeber how they got there...im so scared for them that something is going to happen to them but they never listen to me. I dont drink because im allergic but i dont think i would even if I werent, and I never undertand why they dont like to just come over and watch movies together like we all used to.

And after they blow you off, they wanna call you when no one else want to listen to their !**@! problems, and it angers you off cuz they never wanna come over to see you...

Your not the only one who doesnt have any friends, my boyfriend is my only true friend besides my sister.
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Becky
replied November 17th, 2007
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I'm so sorry Dani. I am going through the same thing right now. All my 'friends' are usually busy cause they don't have kids and robbie is away so every night I just spend by myself alone. the only person I have I can rely on in my life is my mum.
I feel empty most of the time and cause I work from home it means i never get a release. When the kids go to bed i do my work then just sit there twiddling my thumbs wondering what I am doing with my life as it passes me by.
Please Dani feel free to PM me. You sound like you are ina similar situation as me and it'd be good to talk.
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yellow ribbon
replied November 17th, 2007
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aw yall make me feel so much better Smile Nancy I know its hormones for the most part, i normally have happy pills but being pregnant i cant take them so i get like this. O n i dont think i could handle being allergic to alcohol, thats my other friend when im not pregnant. not regularly or anything but just when i get to feeling like this. I need to get internet at my house so i have yall to talk to more often.
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