So the bikini top I wore to class yesterday is a no...?
JK, I rarely ever see women wearing offensive stuff on campus or at work. Most of the jobs I work have a pretty strict dress code though and it's pretty cold up here too so thats probably why I never see it. You'd have to be nine kinds of crazy to wear something skimpy when you have to walk to class in the cold! I have to wear layers!
Pepsigurl, I know what you are trying to say, but I have to disagree with cartoons not having an affect on what your child thinks. Have you seen bratz? Sheesh, my family put a stop to that the second my little sister wanted to watch it. Six year olds should be watching Dora the Explorer, Disney shows, or cartoons... Not mtv and well, whatever else there is.
Just pay attention to what your kid watches. Simple as that. Another thing that helps is saying she's beautiful the way she is. I tell my little sister she's beautiful whenever I come home, just as I tell my little brother he's looking good too. It always seems to help with any self confidence issues those two go through.