Joined: 29 May 2007 Posts: 10 Location: Los angeles, ca Usa
Late bloomer on menstrual period or pregnancy ? Posted: 11-15-07 23:26pm
im only 14. i know you guys probaly all
thinking im stupid.. but i was raised by
the wrong people..i had sexual intercourse
during the middle of last month. he didnt
use a condom but he said he pulled.. out..
i talked to him about it.. and hes sure he
did. please give me sympathy. but like i
said im only 14 and i think im
preganant... i usely start my period at
the end of the month.. and i still havent
started.. its been like 3 weeks.. im realy
scared.. like when i try to suck it in it
hurts me.. it never did before.. and ive
gain wait..please just help me i dont
realy have much other symptoms but this
happened.. to my cusin before but she
started her period a couple days later..
Some said i might be a late bloomer or
something hat do you guys think..?
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Emma2
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Posted: 11-16-07 09:01am
Raised by the wrong people is not an
excuse for your irresponsible behavior.
How are you a late bloomer, when you have
clearly stated you have regular periods.
Do you or don't you have your period each
month.
In the future I suggest you use condoms
and Birth control if you don't want to
have a baby.
Finally take a test !
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browneyed_gemini
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Nov 2007 Posts: 27 Location: ,
Posted: 11-17-07 01:33am
You really need to take a home pregnancy
test. At 14 years old, you should not be
having sexual relations. Physically and
emotionally, you are not ready for a
pregnancy. If you continue to act as an
adult, then you must take on the
responsibilies as an adult. Birth control
would be your first step. If you are also
not grown up enough to discuss this with
your parents, then you are not grown up
enough to be in a sexual relationship.
Please don't take this as me being mean.
I have a 16 year old daughter and a 14
year old step daughter, so I can imagine
how scared you must be. Good luck and
please think more clearly in the future.
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Moo
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Posted: 11-17-07 07:59am
I know you don't want to be lectured but
please don't try and pass the blame of you
having sex at 14 onto other people, you
chose to engage in sexual activity so
please take responsibility for that ok? If
you are not pregnant but wish to continue
being sexually active (although at 14 this
isn't advisable, not to mention against
the law in most places) please invest in
some contraception.
As for the chances of pregnancy when you
participate in unprotected sex then you
have a chance of being pregnant (evern
birth control isn't 100%) and the pull out
method is certainly not a sufficient or
reliable form of birth control. The only
way to know is by taking a pregnancy test
(which should be accurate at three weeks
late). Take a test and then you can assess
your options from there, either way.
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young Girl
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Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
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Posted: 11-17-07 16:51pm
sorry cant feel the least fit bad for ya.
YOU had sex
you did what you did
take a test after a missed period if you
think your pregnant
and get on some birth control
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soldierswifey
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Nov 2007 Posts: 225 Location: , ny usa
Posted: 11-20-07 19:07pm
i agree with the rest of the girls
if your unsure no one on here can tell you
all you have to do is
buy a test,go to a clinic,hospital etc!!
