Hey everyone

I am a guy actually, but kinda posting on behalf of my gf.

Just to give you a lil background on our situation:
1- She's got a IUD, we're both tested against STD's so we I don't use any condom during intercourse
2- I am pretty big down there while she is very tight... AND we have a very active sex life. As in we don't do it less than twice a day during the week and no less than 5 times during weekends... I know, these 2 things mean: use lubricants. LOTS of it.

Our problem here is that when I don't use lubricants, and in this case we both go down on each others before actual intercourse, what we feel is actually multiplied by 2. Seriously. We've tried different types of lubricants and it's always the same deal. Anyway, what happened, and it's the 2nd time it occurs, is that one night my gf just woke me up in the middle of the night, we both were extremely turned on and she just got on it (she was on top which usually we never do right away, even with lubricants because of how tight she is). I could feel lots of friction... The day after she started feeling some pain and I could hardly touch her with my fingers. I could see some clear bruises on the outer lips and the bottom side of her vagina very red, showing some irritation.

You don't have to tell me to ALWAYS use lubricants from now on, we both learned our lesson and we've been going crazy for a week now as I just can't penetrate her.

But I'd like to get some advice on what she could use to help her vagina heal. She's been using some silicone-based lubricants and that helped with the irritation and the constant itching feeling that she had. The bruises on the outer lips have fully healed actually but last night we tried to have sex and she felt some pain as soon as I was in by about 2 inches or so. So I guess there is still some inner bruises. Any suggestion on anything else she could do aside from applying the lubricant?

Sorry for being a little "graphic" in my post but I wanted to show exactly the situation she's in. I am pretty sure many posters here have been through this and the reason I posted this in the Women section is to get some direct advice from women who might have experienced this before... I know it WILL heal with time but I hate seeing her like this and well, we're both going CRAZY not being able to have sex

Thanks in advance!