...After sex I always get sore, no matter how wet or how much lube we use, we don't even go at it hard, but it never fails. It's been like this since we had too much sex one time and I got really sore and swollen down there for about a week, im talking I could barely walk and I was getting this chunky discharge that smelled really bad. It was hell. And now ever since then I get this 'reminder' after the deed. Basically im sick and tired of it! Could there be something still wrong with me from that other really bad time? Ok, and one more question... I've been on bc for 4 months now and just this last month or so after I take my pill (9:30 p.M) about an hour later I feel sick, like I need to throw up, im frankly getting quite tired of this as well... Any suggestions?? (im taking marvelon 2.