Yes - I would definately get a 2nd and 3rd opinion!
I was finally diagnosed with bilateral hip dysplasia 5 years ago at age 28 after YEARS of unexplained hip pain. You don't want to mess around with hips! I also am a mother of 2 little ones (3years and 7 months) - and am now facing the possibility of replacement/resurface or a reconstructive surgery.
My pain comes and goes - the sharp pain in groin after sitting comes with no warning! I believe that is caused by a torn labrum (which I believe I have in both hips) I get a dull ache in the hip - especially at night or after I exercise. Along with dysplasia I have osteoarthritis and cysts in the hip.
I have gone to MANY doctors - 3 in the past few months and am going to Boston to see a specialist next week.
I would go to as many doctors as you can! (They will all most likely have different opinions - mine did!!) At least you will get some answers and possible reasons for the hip pain. I have realized that hip pain is not normal in someone that is 33 years old - and have decided not to live with pain anymore. Now I just need to figure out what surgery to have!!
If you do not feel comfortable with a doctor - move on. My doctor that diagnosed me 5 years ago just told me to "live with the pain until I can't take it anymore - then get a replacement". That was not the answer I was looking for, so I moved on to other doctors.
I had to go to 3 doctors 5 years ago before I got my diagnosis of hip dysplasia. The first 2 just said I had a torn labrum - nothing else. When I went to the 3rd - he actually called another doctor in to look at my x-rays - and told me I had the hips of a 70 year old. I was in shock that the other doctors didn't see this!
So my advice - go to other doctors - ASAP.
Beth