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Questioning My Pro-choice Beliefs
Posted: 11-14-07 17:37pm

I don't know why this has even happened to me, but it most likely has to do with my dabbling in religion (a couple of elderly Jehovah's Witnesses have been coming to my door every Saturday and we've been having discussions. They are presumably hoping to proselytise me, but it seems to have been counter-productive as I am endeavouring to convince them their New World Translation is utter tosh, vis-à-vis the clear evidence that the Bible writes of a Holy Trinity et al. but that's another issue...). Not that I am a believer of God (I am a firm agnostic (simply don't know if a deity exists) who happens to believe that atheism is pointless and incredible (God cannot be proven to not exist)). Nor do I support a theocracy (religion should be much more out of Government than it is and reduced to personal faith and prayer and nothing more). It's just that religion clearly speaks in opposition to abortion and the scientific pro-life view has sprung to mind, particularly as I was planning to write a lengthy pro-pro-choice (the two pros are on purpose; I'm sure you get the meaning) document to Alive and Kicking or the Pro-Life Alliance. Scientifically, the unborn are irrefutably human beings, and many pro-lifers argue that this factor alone should give them the right to live.

Pro-choicers argue that foetuses are not persons. OK, as a pro-choicer to all others of my ilk out there who can hopefully provide me some constructive arguments, I ask a) what exactly is a person then? As far as I have ever come across in life and in the dictionary, person and human are not discriminated between. Please show evidence that not all human being are persons; b) even if a foetus is not a person, how does this justify the intentional killing of an innocent human?

I guess the thought that, if foetuses deserve equal rights to born humans, a mass butchering and infanticide has been woefully and apathetically carried out for absolutely years, and considering that this may be true, I just got shocked.

Also, despite the fact that I admittedly disregarded it previously, pro-lifers argue fairly that born humans, by the same logic that foetuses can be aborted due to their parasitic nature, should not have any rights if they are being kept alive because of a life-support machine. As pro-choicers, could you please point out the dichotomy and why the latter is not justified?

Why does the foetus's undeniable parasitic status mean that it should be legally terminated? It is still human regardless.

If foetuses, admittedly humans by pro-choicers, can be aborted because they are the result of a rape, then why should born humans born of a rape have rights? Please don't answer "just because they are born". It's crucial to being a simple operation every woman should be permitted to choose or the violent, bloody, and murderous discrimination just for being unborn.

Please don't get me wrong. I have not turned pro-life. I am simultaneously of the belief that bigotry is close-mindedness and that I can remain very firm in my opinions, which I view as correct, whilst being open-minded to the idea that there may be something better that could change them. If I were to ever become a pro-lifer I wouldn't feel hypocritical in the slightest as only a bigot would say that one has to stick by the same views when faced with something more propitious. I just think that I have accepted certain integral pro-choice beliefs that were countering pro-life beliefs, when in fact there are still pro-life alternatives to attack those attacks (do you get that Embarassed I've never been good at explaining) Exclamation I actively encourage all pro-choicers to explain and answer my questions.

Some of these I may have kept secret, some you may know of, but here is a list of...

COMMON PRO-CHOICE ARGUMENTS I DON'T SUPPORT

1. "Making abortion illegal is wrong because women are going to do it anyway, so it is better that they have the legal, safe, and healthy choice to do it"

OK, this is unadulterated rubbish. The exact same logic means that murder (I'm not saying this is what abortion is, just for the record) should be legalised because "killers are going to do it anyway and should have a healthy, safe, and legal right to do so in a building specialised for that". It's just doesn't stick.

2. "You cannot enforce your beliefs on anyone else's body but your own. Have your personal views but stay out of my vagina"

Firstly, as a libertarian, I believe that one has the freedom to do whatever one wants with one's body and property as long as one doesn't interfere with the freedom and rights of another person (which is why I currently support voluntary euthanasia, although I haven't studied it too in depth), but this notion cannot be applied to abortion, since foetuses scientifically are not the body of the woman. They occupy it parasitically, but they are not part of it. I currently remain pro-choice and equally of this view. Whether or not parasitic humans should be able to be aborted is another issue I have mentioned above, but they are not a part of the woman's body. In fact, that fact could even go against that libertarian thought, as women are attacking the right of someone/something else's body.

Secondly, if there is substantial evidence or reason to prove that foetuses are human beings frequently immorally and unjustifiably murdered, then I think the Law has every right to intervene, just as it has the right to stop you from killing any other human being. I am a libertarian and feel that the Government has no right to intervene in many things, but the nature of the discussion and the possibility that our country faces infanticide is a totally different issue.

3. "The foetus has no rights whatsoever - it is a parasitic entity occupying the body of a born, sentient woman who has rights. However, abortion is just wrong in x circumstance" Confused Rolling Eyes

OK, if there is scientific and logical evidence to prove that the pro-choice view is of worth to be implemented as the Law, then the popular saying on #2 can be applied. Ostensibly, as pro-choicers, you believe that the pro-choice arguments should be legally binding. If this is the case, then it is utterly nonsensical to oppose abortion because of a "certain circumstance" or gestational period. If foetuses are rightless, then they categorically should be allowed to be aborted regardless Exclamation In such a case, the idea of "you cannot place your semi-pro-choice morals on my uterus" can be applied, thus suggesting that there is no LEGAL reason why abortion should be restricted to certain conditions. I am of the (rare) absolute approach to abortion - it doesn't matter how the foetus got there, whether it's disabled or healthy, how old it is - it either has legal rights to life or it doesn't! If not, there is no logic behind the opposition to a late-term abortion* and the support of a first trimester termination. Viability is so important to many people, but to me it's as significant as George Bush frying in a giant Iraqi-made human pisspot - I really don't care what the foetus COULD POSSIBLY do outside of the womb; the fact is that it IS STILL IN THE WOMB and therefore remains rightless and parasitic (for those skeptics, actually yes it is a parasite because if the mother stop eating it would die. Essentially, any foetus requires feeding to survive - it is a parasite).

*There was a documentary on here in England a few weeks back discussing abortion (pictures of terminated foetuses were shown for the first time on British TV. They were the "main ones you see on pro-life websites". I think you'll have a pretty good idea of which I mean). There is no consensus for when foetuses feel pain, however a few scientists said the 'movement' they make is supposedly just reflexes and the nerve or whatever it is (I was **** at science Cool and I'm knackered) in the brain only connects to the response of pain at birth. If the most common view is that foetuses are sentient at 20+ weeks, then to be on the 'safe side' I feel that foetuses could be given numbing anaesthetic before the abortion.

Please pro-choicers, answer my dilemmas! The Pro-Life Alliance's documents on abortion and euthanasia are really getting me thinking and requiring just a refreshing thought - just why is pro-choice justified?. Hopefully, my question can be adequately answered and I can write a letter to tackle the Pro-Life Alliance and show just why choice is better Laughing.

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From a confused, tired, sleepy, rambling pro-choicer who needs re-assurance.
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Posted: 11-14-07 19:05pm

I commend you on your honest and open approach to the issue, your "Re-Think"

Personally I do believe that if you consider the issue fairly you can only make one logical conclusion, there are a lot of things to consider so dont rush, remain on the fence for as long as you need, dont feel presured by either side, I am sure you wont.

I will not try to change what you believe, I am not going to jump in and remind you of all the pro life arguments, you know most of them, and there are always the many pro life posts on this site for you to peruse at your own pace without any pressure, maybe you may have over looked some crucial points made in them because of previous certitude regarding your pro choice possition, perhaps now you are more conciously open to the pro life possiton those crucial points maybe more apparant.

I wont say much more since this is addressed to the pro choice people, except that your possition on the nature of the unborn child (fetus) as being a parasite or of a parasitic nature is incorrect regarding dictionary deffinition of scientific understanding. It can be used in language for example we say a person who lives off anothers kindness is a parasite, but we dont mean that in the actual scientific terms, what we are doing when we say that is we are dehumanizing that person for his/her premeditated or ignorant behaviour, or rather pointing out his or her own behaviour we regard as unhuman or at least a bad human behaviour we do not call a baby who is naturally predisposed to recieve care either as a new or pre born a parasite becuase it is neither out of premetated exploitation or willful ignorance, but of natural disposition so what could be the possible reason for wanting to dehumanize a human being who is wholly innocent and naturally predisposed to relly on help?

Scientifically a member of the same species which is nourished both before and after birth by the parent is called "offspring" not a parasite.
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Posted: 11-14-07 20:12pm

Kypros wrote:
The exact same logic means that homicide (I'm not saying this is what abortion is, just for the record) should be legalised because "killers are going to do it anyway and should have a healthy, safe, and legal right to do so in a building specialised for that". It's just doesn't stick.


Um, no. Unless one thinks women who want abortions are the same as murderers. Then that kinda makes them a waste of time.

Kypros wrote:
In fact, that fact could even go against that libertarian thought, as women are attacking the right of someone/something else's body.


To say that women are "attacking" embryos is implying that they are malicious. Which is outlandish.
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Posted: 11-14-07 21:27pm

What exactly do you want us to say?

Pro-choice is justified by believing that women have a right to decide what happens to their bodies, and that includes carrying a baby or not. If you don't believe that, then what's the point in being pro-choice?
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Posted: 11-15-07 14:04pm

Gu£st wrote:
your possition on the nature of the unborn child (fetus) as being a parasite or of a parasitic nature is incorrect regarding dictionary deffinition of scientific understanding.


I disagree with you also based on the dictionary's definition of parasite:

"1. an organism that lives on or in an organism of another species, known as the host, from the body of which it obtains nutriment.
2. a person who receives support, advantage, or the like, from another or others without giving any useful or proper return, as one who lives on the hospitality of others."


These obviously cover what you said about it, but to support the reference to foetuses as parasites:

"an animal or plant that lives in or on a host (another animal or plant); it obtains nourishment from the host without benefiting or killing the host"

Pedanthood regarding whether the host is the same organism as the parasite is not really necessary. All foetuses are parasitic - they live in and off, in order to survive, another entity without contributing to the host's survival. Irrefutable scientific evidence is only dehumanising if you blindly associate parasites exclusively with non-humans.

Gu£st wrote:
Scientifically a member of the same species which is nourished both before and after birth by the parent is called "offspring" not a parasite.


Foetuses are offspring and parasites. Being the former does not mean it cannot be the latter.

Jude-Love wrote:
Um, no. Unless one thinks women who want abortions are the same as murderers. Then that kinda makes them a waste of time.


As I said, I was not calling women who abort murderers. The example does not even have to be murder. Let's generalise: I believe that the notion of "x should legalised because people are going to do it anyway" is just nonsensical and does nothing for the pro-choice argument. x here could be murder, stealing, rape, fighting et al.

Jude-Love wrote:
To say that women are "attacking" embryos is implying that they are malicious. Which is outlandish.


Unless there is a good argument to say why a certain type of human (in this case an unborn baby) should have no rights and be allowed to be killed if desired, then abortion is malicious and a lot worse! Again, I must re-iterate that this is not my current view (I am pro-choice), but I am speaking from a scientific pro-life platform.

Rodge wrote:
What exactly do you want us to say?


I want you to answer my questions.

Rodge wrote:
Pro-choice is justified by believing that women have a right to decide what happens to their bodies, and that includes carrying a baby or not. If you don't believe that, then what's the point in being pro-choice?


It certainly is not justified if it cannot constructively show why some humans can have rights while others have none at all. This would equate discrimination, holocaust, and mass infanticide. Once again, I am going to say to those who will probably have read my earlier comments and ignored them that I do not believe that. I am speaking from a pro-life viewpoint. I just want to be refreshed by the cleverer minds here why parasitic foetuses, admittedly humans, can be terminated but those in a coma, a vegetative state, or on a life-support machine cannot, despite their states being extremely similar, if not identical.

Rodge, there is MUCH more to pro-choice than believing "a woman should have the right to control her body and whatever is inside it", it is why she has that right. It is complex and subtle yet equally clear once understood. What I am having scruples about is why should foetuses (humans) not have rights? Why should being a parasite mean you do not have rights? Why should those alive by a machine not be killed on the same basis that foetuses are aborted?

N.B. the meanings of human and person:


Person = "1. a human being, whether man, woman, or child: The table seats four persons.
2. a human being as distinguished from an animal or a thing.
3. Sociology. an individual human being, esp. with reference to his or her social relationships and behavioral patterns as conditioned by the culture.
4. Philosophy. a self-conscious or rational being.
5. the actual self or individual personality of a human being: You ought not to generalize, but to consider the person you are dealing with.
6. the body of a living human being, sometimes including the clothes being worn: He had no money on his person.
7. the body in its external aspect: an attractive person to look at.
8. a character, part, or role, as in a play or story.
9. an individual of distinction or importance.
10. a person not entitled to social recognition or respect.
11. Law. a human being (natural person) or a group of human beings, a corporation, a partnership, an estate, or other legal entity (artificial person or juristic person) recognized by law as having rights and duties.
12. Grammar. a category found in many languages that is used to distinguish between the speaker of an utterance and those to or about whom he or she is speaking. In English there are three persons in the pronouns, the first represented by I and we, the second by you, and the third by he, she, it, and they. Most verbs have distinct third person singular forms in the present tense, as writes; the verb be has, in addition, a first person singular form am.
13. Theology. any of the three hypostases or modes of being in the Trinity, namely the Father, the Son, and the Holy Ghost."

Human being = "1. any individual of the genus Homo, esp. a member of the species Homo sapiens.
[size]2. a person[/size], esp. as distinguished from other animals or as representing the human species: living conditions not fit for human beings; a very generous human being."

The terms person and human being can both be used to describe the foetus and are interchangeable in most circumstances. Generally, I render human being as a more scientific term and person to refer in a more everyday, mundane manner to express individuality. The pro-choicers who argue that a foetus is human but not a person are either lying or ignorantly professing something that it not true. The best policy in the whole abortion debate is to uphold integrity, honesty, and truth, not creating discriminations that do not exist to back their view.

I am particularly interesting in a response from Cari, Eiri, Birch, Jules etc. whom I have debated with more extensively in my presence here Very
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Posted: 11-15-07 14:13pm

It's not like someone being kept alive by a machine, though. It's like someone being kept alive solely by you giving them a piggyback ride all day every day for nine months.
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Posted: 11-15-07 14:18pm

Sorry, I do not quite understand that analogy. Could you explain in more depth?
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Posted: 11-15-07 14:28pm

Being on a ventilator isn't the same as depending completely on another person's body to give you life.

What are your pro-choice beliefs? I know you say you're questioning them, but honestly you're coming across as someone trying to talk us into a corner. Your questions basically boil down to 'So, guys, remind me why we're okay with KILLING INNOCENT BABIES. I'm totally a pro-choicer, but I can't remember what arguments we pro-choicers use to justify all the KILLING. Also using women's rights to justify abortion is like the Holocaust.'
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Posted: 11-15-07 15:13pm

Well, well. Just as I thought, I have been misunderstood. I made a conscious effort more than once to get the point over that I was speaking from a pro-life stance. Pedantically speaking, abortions do kill (= take the life of) innocent (= they are not guilty of anything) babies (= young human beings), although I did not mean it in the negative stance you seem to think, nor did I actually say it in that fashion.

I am pro-choice. I do not really see the necessity for me to go in any more depth than that as the philosophy is self-explanatory. I support the choice of a female to have an abortion.

I have not forgot the reasons why we are pro-choice, but I am awaiting a constructive pro-choice response to the questions I have asked. For example, many pro-choicers will argue that foetuses, as parasites, have no rights. I, from an empathetic pro-life stance (I hope that is unequivocal), am asking why should parasites who are human beings not have rights? How can a pro-choicer use logic, reason, and (scientific) fact to counter that question?

I am sorry, but I cannot see the difference in the state of foetuses and that of those on a life-support machine by the way you explained it (obviously the host of foetuses is another human body and for comatose individuals an electronic machine, but the [u]logic and basis for justifying abortion is the same for those of justifying switching off a life-support machine because the person it supports has lost his/her rights to live due to its lack of personhood (personhood by the way some pro-choicers here seem to use it in a more neologistic way)). The abortion debate demands depth and I feel that, as a pro-choicer, I should be able to recognise the difference between the status of somebody living off a life-support machine and that of foetuses. I cannot, off my own back, so I am asking other pro-choice advocates to help me out and answer where I am stuck. If I cannot get a decent answer then I shall struggle in seeing the logic of being pro-choice. I do not want it to be that people on life-support have no rights. This is the correlation to my first post of the thread. All the questions I asked there are integral, to me, to being pro-choice. They need to be answered.
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Posted: 11-15-07 15:21pm

so you are not really questioning your pro-life beliefs as your thread says,(because you are pro-choice) but you are just trying to get pro-choice to give you answers to questions you have already in the past felt ?
You want them "pro-choice" to answer you like you are pro-life?
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Posted: 11-15-07 16:27pm

Okay, look. Life-support machine = MACHINE. Machine = NOT ALIVE OR SENTIENT IN ANY WAY. It doesn't care that there is something depending on its internal workings for life.

A woman is not a machine. A woman might not want something dependent on her body, something that gradually demands more and more until it has to be painfully expelled after nine months.

You do understand that, right? That women are not life-support machines? It's not hard.

Wait, I need to clarify something. Are libertarians the ones who think we should get rid of the NHS? Because if that's where you're coming from, we're going to have a very big disagreement.
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Re: Questioning My Pro-choice Beliefs
Posted: 11-15-07 20:24pm

First let me just say that I do not think you have to be on board with any of these reasons you've listed to justify your prochoice position.

I am prochoice because I recognize that there is a absolute need for safe abortions in this society. If we lived in a complete Utopia, I would think more about becoming prolife.

Why I am prochoice:

*Birth control is not free, readily available, healthy, and 100% effective
*Therefore, having sex does not mean you are consenting to forced parturition.
*I do not recognize conception as being a singular, miraculous event; therefore, I do not view a fetus or embryo as nothing much than a biological organ with potential, but not there yet
*Our society is not (in a nutshell) friendly economically or psychosocially towards women, especially single mothers, especially the impoverished

Now towards your particular questions, and forgive me if I miss any but your post is lengthy and my attention span is not. Very
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Kypros wrote:

Pro-choicers argue that foetuses are not persons. OK, as a pro-choicer to all others of my ilk out there who can hopefully provide me some constructive arguments, I ask a) what exactly is a person then? As far as I have ever come across in life and in the dictionary, person and human are not discriminated between. Please show evidence that not all human being are persons; b) even if a foetus is not a person, how does this justify the intentional killing of an innocent human?


It doesn't matter to me personally if it's a person or not, a label does not change what it is. I simply do not view a fetus, which I do recognize as a human being, as anything of extrodinary value- only something of great potential but isn't there yet.

Kypros wrote:


Also, despite the fact that I admittedly disregarded it previously, pro-lifers argue fairly that born humans, by the same logic that foetuses can be aborted due to their parasitic nature, should not have any rights if they are being kept alive because of a life-support machine. As pro-choicers, could you please point out the dichotomy and why the latter is not justified?


Although this is not one of my 'reasons' I think the dichotomy lies within the concept of an involuntary versus voluntary life support system which consists of a person, not a machine.

Kypros wrote:

If foetuses, admittedly humans by pro-choicers, can be aborted because they are the result of a rape, then why should born humans born of a rape have rights? Please don't answer "just because they are born". It's crucial to being a simple operation every woman should be permitted to choose or the violent, bloody, and murderous discrimination just for being unborn.


I am not sure I understand your question. Are you asking that if a person is born of rape, is their right to life forfeit because of the circumstances of their conception?

I think to answer that, I would have to defer to a prolife advocate who is prolife except for circumstances of rape. I have never understood how to a prolife person a fetus conceived of rape has any less "value" to them. This seems clear to me an issue of mother's consent versus preserving life.

I think I've answered what I can. I have not responded to the reasons you have listed because I can't really rebutt them because I generally agree with you. I would also add to your list The Psychic Hotline theory; the one that the kids born will have a miserable life in an orphanage and grow up never knowing the taste of love or whatever.
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Posted: 11-15-07 20:27pm

Oh, and, I think humans are an alien infestation causing considerable and irrevocable harm to planet Earth. But that's kind of "harsh" and "out there" and not generally appreciated.
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Posted: 11-16-07 00:56am

Here is why I am pro-choice, and anyone who isn't hates women, in my opinion:

No matter how many arguments and rationalizations there are, no matter how many threats, no matter how hard it is to obtain,

throughout all of history

in every single society

in every country

there have always been and always will be

women who seek abortions.

Making it illegal just makes it more dangerous.
It does not save any embryos.
It only harms women.
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Posted: 11-16-07 07:50am

Why I think your arguements are rubbish Kypros: Roe Vs Wade was passed To Save The Lives of Women not for any other reason. There are reams of proof used in the decision clearly showing women were having abortions anyway: Here is the article http://www.cnn.com/2007/HEALTH/10/11/ab ortion.global.ap/index.html

Basically, it says that the rate of abortions is about the same regardless of legality and safeness. Something like 70,000 women die in the world every year due to unsafe abortions and that another 5 million women suffer temporary or permanant injury. It goes on to point out that most unsafe abortions occur in the poorest countries and those where it is illegal.
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Posted: 11-16-07 09:17am

I think it is interesting that pro choice people are so intensely focused on the woman they completely miss the child. I dont think the pro choice movement is going to do anything constructive for equal rights. If anything pro choice advocates that one human being has superior rights over another human being, at one end of the spectrum feminists are fighting for equal rights with men and at the other end superior rights over unborn human beings, yet denying men equal rights regarding the child, this seems very odd, I have equal rights to you, superior rights over our child and you have no rights at all regarding our child except those I choose to give to you.... does this sound fair?

does anyone who disagree with women wanting this, hate women?

because if so, then I hate women and will work tirelessly to destroy the laws that support such madness.
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Posted: 11-16-07 11:42am

I do not "completely miss the child". Anyone who knows anything about my pro-choice stance knows that I am against abortions past 27-ish weeks BECAUSE of the unborn. At that age, it can survive outside of the womb and that makes it worthy of life in my opinion. The only acceptable reasons for an abortion at that stage in my mind are maternal danger or fetal deformity.

I am pro-choice because I biologically know the young embryo/fetus is not an independent being from the mother. It is connected to her in the tightest parasitic connection you can get. It even has to secrete hormones all 9 months to prevent the mother's body from rejecting it.

Because the embryo/fetus cannot survive outside of the mother's body, her right to remove it results in its death. This is not just about a woman's right to kill unborn babies. It is about her right to not be pregnant. Initially, that was my sole belief. I have since come into the belief that abortion is also merciful, by preventing a life in the adoption tract or a life of abuse. So now, abortion is about the woman's right to end the embryo/fetus' life before it is grown and can feel pain, and it is also about her right to not be pregnant.
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Posted: 11-16-07 12:13pm

Gu£st wrote:
I think it is interesting that pro choice people are so intensely focused on the woman they completely miss the child.

Not completely "miss" it but it's secondary, yes

Gu£st wrote:
I dont think the pro choice movement is going to do anything constructive for equal rights.

It's impossible to create equal rights for the woman and foetus because of the nature of the relationship in an unwanted pregnancy. This is why men legally have no say too, it'd be impossible to legislate without one persons rights being superceeded.

As for the difference between a person and a human being it's as simple as a human isn't legally a person until birth, therefore it doesn't have the rights conferred to people by the law imo. It's not the main point of my beliefs though

I just wanted to add there's nothing wrong with questioning your beliefs on anything
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Posted: 11-16-07 13:06pm

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I think it is interesting that pro choice people are so intensely focused on the woman they completely miss the child.


That's because there is no child - there's a woman and a fetus. No children are involved in abortions. And if fetuses can have rights, perhaps all growths that ever can occur in a woman's body should have rights too. Malignant lump in her breast? It has a right to life! Ovarian cancer, and the woman needs surgery to remove the offending organs? How dare you take away that organism's right to grow and live on! Ingrown hair? Oh holy hell, they're people too! I bet your mother had an ingrown hair when she was pregnant with you! What if your mother did to that hair what you did to your hair? You wouldn't be here, that's what! Don't be a m*rderer - support life, and let cancer grow happily and undisturbed in your body. It's God's way, don't you know? Support life - happy happy happy!

(sarcasm off)
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Posted: 11-16-07 13:12pm

Now we are back to the point of comparing an ingrown hair to a fetus developing into a human being.( I think it was compared to a tonsil or something strange like that last time.) Sorry guys, I see a big diff! Sad you don't. And sad you can so easily JOKE about it..
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