I'm not sure what you mean by drops man. The amount of a drop can vary from the perspectives per person. It's completely clear as well? That is expected in pre-cum, but not in the actual ejaculate as well. Smell wise... I don't know about that, I never really made it a habit to sniff it haha.
Hair, don't worry about it, you might regret it later of having it in excess. Just a bit of hair will do, you got plenty of time.
It is perfectly normal that you don't "shoot out", there are those that can, and those that can't. I personally imagine it is agitating for those who masturbate and shoot out, since it'll hit something.