Sex Aids And Toys

Hey everyone! My name is April. Im new to e-health, but I think its a cool site so far. I just wanted to post a little hello to you all by sharing with you some things about sex toys, sex aids and your sexual well being.


Sex aids or sex toys are devices made to vary or enhance pleasure during sexual activity. They are used primarily on the genitals or around the genitals, but some can be used on other parts of the body as well. People use them when they are on their own or with partners.

There are lots of crazy myths about these products that I think need cleared up!

Myth: Sex toys are only for people who have a bad sex life, or no sex life:

Sex Toy Fact:Everyone and anyone you can image is the kind of person who uses sex toys. In fact research on vibrator use suggests that people who are having sex use sex toys more than those who aren’t, and that between 20-30% of people have used sex toys at least once in their lives. Sex toys aren’t a crutch or a cure-all, they are an addition to sexual repertoire.

Myth: If a woman has a sex toy, she won’t need a man:

Sex Toy Fact:Sex toys are not replacements for people. A sex toy won’t make you breakfast, or cuddle, or tell you how much it loves you. Many men are intimidated by sex toys because they have been raised with the idea that the most important thing about them is what’s between their legs. These myths about male sexuality sink in early, and as a result most men are insecure about their sexual importance. Also, let’s remember that there are lots of women who don’t want a man in the first place, and a sex toy isn’t going to change that one way or the other.


Myth: There are bad sex toys and good sex toys:
Sex Toy Fact:With the exception of a few sex toys that pose obvious risks, there is no such thing as a “good” or “bad” sex toy. Sex toys are whatever we do with them. A vibrator that would be too strong, too heavy, and painful for one person might be perfect for another. A dildo that feels sticky and looks weird to one, might be the ideal shape, size and texture for another. The trick is to find the sex toy that’s right for you, but most sex toys will be good for some people, and bad for others.


Myth: Sex toys are kinky:

Fact:Words like “kinky” and “normal” are completely relative and while they may govern what you feel comfortable talking about (or doing) in public, the sooner you realize that everyone is “kinky” behind closed doors, the happier and less stressful your sex life will be. Sex toys don’t make sex kinky, and using them doesn’t “say” anything about the kind of person you are, other than the fact that you’re the kind of person who feels worthy of sexual pleasure. Which is a highly respectable reputation to have in any social circle

Thats just to name a few. Sex toys are actually healthy, and sometimes Dr. recommended. They can add spice into a very bland sex life and a goood, healthy sex life can lead to a happier relationship.