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What if your husband was arrested and put in jail?
Posted: 11-13-07 21:20pm

you guys do if your hubby was arrested and put in jail for 30 years?
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Posted: 11-13-07 21:27pm

die
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Posted: 11-13-07 21:28pm

would you go on with your life and get together without someone else?
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Posted: 11-13-07 21:30pm

lol id go on with may daughter,and become a lesbian lol

id wait for him to get out and then run his a$$ over because he went to jail in the first place
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Posted: 11-13-07 21:34pm

lmaooooo would you really become a lesbian?
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Posted: 11-13-07 21:38pm

yes i really would
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Posted: 11-14-07 09:16am

Really don't know what I would do :s Probably would depend on what he did and why.
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Posted: 11-14-07 10:12am

First off -- considering my husband won't even drink one beer or disobey the traffic laws, I doubt this is going to happen. But ... since you asked ....I don't have kids so I think I would join some humanitarian/missionary effort. It also depended on what he did to get there. If it was on the lines of homicide/rape/incest/drugs -- I would probably seek a divorce. If it was something like a self defense where he got charged with the homicide / hit someone who he didn't see in the road ... Then I would be faithful but not hang around home and cry either.
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Posted: 11-14-07 10:14am

It would depend on for what reason . If it was somthing bad I would divorce him and move on.. If not, I would stay married.
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Posted: 11-14-07 10:18am

It depends on what he was arrested for.
Pedophile... Would never talk to him again.... On MY daughter-I'd be right there in jail because I'd KILL him.
Something like burglary, I would get over it.
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Posted: 11-15-07 06:03am

Please someone tell me they can see 4 dancing bananas...
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Posted: 11-15-07 06:51am

IT's peanut butter jelly time, peanut butter jelly time...
peanut butter jelly peanut butter jelly peanut butter jelly with a baseball bat
peanut butter jelly peanut butter jelly peanut butter jelly with a baseball bat
Where you goin, where you at? Where you goin, where you at?
IT's peanut butter jelly time, peanut butter jelly time

Dance my little bananas, dance!
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Posted: 11-15-07 10:56am

I'd stay with him unless if it was a terrible act that hurt me or someone I care for
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Posted: 11-15-07 22:14pm

meblonde01 wrote:
It would depend on for what reason . If it was somthing bad I would divorce him and move on.. If not, I would stay married.

Simply...and straight to the point...I sought of agree with you.

Only, when reality strikes, what we say we will do and what we actually do are completely different.
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Posted: 11-15-07 22:47pm

I don't know. If the act that got him in was completely against his character, if it was self defense or noble in some other way, then I might stay loyal. I'd fight for early release, too.

If it was anything else, then bye!!
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Posted: 11-15-07 23:22pm

i wud honestly go on with my life....30 years is a looonggg time, and i dont think i wud spend it waiting for anyone.... that might sound selfish, but i only have one life and i want to live it
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Posted: 11-15-07 23:28pm

Well for someone to go to jail for 30 years it would have to be a pretty bad crime. Unless he was wrongly convicted. Which i don't know if i would ever know. Maybe sometimes you just do. But if he wasn't and he went to the slammer for 30 years i would have to say i would move on with my life. Or i would have to have a life time supply to the nearest adult store Wink LOL
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Re: What If Your Husband Was Arrested And Put In Jail?
Posted: 11-17-07 10:49am

winter_child wrote:
you guys do if your hubby was arrested and put in jail for 30 years?


I would prolly stay faithful for several years until the reality of 30 years would sink in, then I'd finally get the courage to make a new life for myself. It really all would depend on the situation of course tho. I would also consider becoming a lesbian. Being with my man for 9 years and only being 25 leaves me a bit nieve and in experienced not to mention dependant in some ways. It would take me a long time to handle the situation and decide what I would need/want to do.
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Posted: 11-18-07 00:20am

wait...

nah i think i would.....



....................................hmmm.. ...


nope
id still turn lesbian lol
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shelley27ky

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Posted: 11-21-07 23:06pm

i dont get this post to be honest did your hubby go to jail?
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