how old are you hun?

If possible it sounds like you need to move away and start new. Or head back home for awhile until you are feeling better about yourself. I'm sorry, sometimes other people suck! I feel bad for you! Well you could probably find some nice people on here for online friends! Take care and try to do something to cheer yourself up!

Have you ever seen the Teenage Drama Queen movie? She moved to a new town and was "different" so not accepted. Your town may just not be very good at accepting strangers. It's pretty common for people not to trust you for a while until you become a familiar face.
First off, I would give it a while to settle down. I know that seems hard but time heals a lot of wounds. First chance I get, I would get involved in some activity you like. Church is where I found a lot of friends. You could try ballet, school choir, soccor, arts/crafts, or band. Then, be nice to everyone. Even those who are mean to you. It'll either make them madder because you responded that way or they will like you. I think it's a win either way! lol Also, walking around with a mad look on your face will not do any good. Focus on positive things and get a smile on your face even if it is fake -- a good bit of the time, a fake smile soon turns into a real one. Positivity and being nice/kind is the key here. It really changed my life as a teenager (ew.. 10 years ago!). Even when you do get a network of friends, never stop being nice to others because it will come back to reward you in the future.

well..i am 26 and i came here for my master course..the pressure is huge..full of tests and assignments.. and i have no support..with these girls, well they r from my country students also.. i cannot understand their behavior..i never done sth wrong..it was not my purpose to find friends from my country, but u know here in uni everybody r hugging around with people with the same nationality..so it is difficult to find another nationality friend..omg..i just want this course to finish as soonas possible..

Like she said keep a smile on your face! Don't let other people whom you may never see again get you down! She was right find a group to join. You might be suprise who you find! You will find what you need just stay positive! How much longer do you have? What are you studying?

i'm studying environmental management..and it is really tough..since now i have failures..u know i am coming from a different educational system and i found it hard to adopt..but i will..i am working on it..i have to stay here for a year..i was hopping it would be till april but now i failed a module so i am afraid i have to stay at least till summer..u know now my program is so full with studies that i do not have time even to cook..plus i feel alone..to much pressure..sometimes i think i can control it..but some other i feel to bend..

Stick with it and keep your head up high! You will be fine. I know it's hard but if you continue with a good attitude you'll make it! If you feel alone come on here and start up another chat people on here will always talk!! You can do it girl!! Hang in there!! Focus on your studies and you will be along with your life in no time!

Where are you from originally? Sorry if you already said, I couldn't see it...

I can't believe people are being so rude! When you described what people were being like I assumed you were a school kid not someone in their 20s, that's crazy! I had a crap time at uni too - I was placed in a shared flat with French, German and American girls and the cultural differences were really noticable. Sometimes it's a vicious circle, if you don't click with the first collection of people you meet your confidence takes a bashing so you find it harder to meet others.

I agree with the advice about going to a club. I started doing Aikido and met some great people through that.

Please don't think all British people are as horrible as the ones you've met - it sounds like you've had the bad luck to meet some real chumheads but there are some lovely people out there just waiting to meet you.

Keep posting here too, you're never alone!

Jules.

thnx all of u for the support!
Well..these people are not British,actually they r from my country..and this is the annoying, i do not understand what they think they r doing here and why they do it but what can i say..i just take the goods and try to adapt in this situation..after all my classes r so many and so difficult that i cannot follow them..they looks like they r having vacations here, while i am running like a real crazy. Fortunately people in my course are very nice and helpful.. i find a real support from them and i appreciate it a lot..people from different countries really helped me in go on with this class..(as i said before i was never cared to make friends only from my country, but unfortunately this is how things works here..) i try to not care about the rest..

I will start by telling you that your first mistake was making an attempt to please anyone. That is impossible. It's like seeking and expecting to attain perfection.

I would suggest that you spend your precious time concentrating on your studies. This does have both benefits, and it should be a priority, even over your lack of friends issue.

In my experience, the less friends that you have the better off you are.

Take this time that you seem to perceive as a lonely negative time and turn it into a time of silent but productive self discovery.

I just moved to Nevada from California and I've tried several times to make friends up here but it just seems impossible. My bf's work is up here and I stay at home, I'm 33 weeks prego and will be a stay at home mom. I never did make female friends easily and that used to be just gravy with me, now that I'm pregnant I want female friends. I'm so lonely and I often get depressed about it. I am 25 (young I know), but I feel terrible also that in the past few years I've done nothing for myself and I have had a really rocky relationship. No1 calls me, even the few friends and family that I have so I feel your pain. Since my move I have almost no human to human contact with anyone but the ppl in wal-mart where I shop lol. I guess when my daughter is born things might change and maybe more ppl up here will come around and want to be friends with me then. There is hope for us, I think it's just a bump in the road but it will soon smooth out for the both of us, we can't let it knock us down!

have u tried to join some activities, clubs or sth like that? (sorry for my english but it is not my mother language..) i mean r there any activities for pregnant women? like gym or group discussions or sth like that? Why yr family don't call u?
U know here since i started to ignore them i think things goes better..but u know i do not care anymore..i have so much work to do that i really do not care about them..and they r calling me and inviting me to their homes etc..i hate this kind of behavior..But sometimes people do not appreciate u if u r nice and kind with them, sometimes they prefer to be ignored because u give them the impression that u don't care anymore and they try to get yr interest back..or maybe because this way they feel u as a superior..I find this kind of behavior really stupid but what can i say..if they do not appreciate my kindness i can be an problem..i think that this kind of people do not deserve any kindness from u..
for example..they really appreciate one girl who : 1. take their cigarettes (and here they r expensive..) 2. eat their food without helping in cooking or with shopping (to not mention money) 3. she gossips everyone (including me) and in a bad manor.. 4. she make them feel uncomfortable because of her behavior..

i have seen this story before..sometimes people love this kind of behavior, and unfortunately most of the time..since they like to be behaved like that y should i be bothered?? i just ignore them and things goes fine..

I know how hard it is, but it worked for me, do not let them to loose yr self esteem. Just be yrself and everyone who likes u is welcome, if they don't better leave u alone..i mean..sometimes some personalities r not easily accepted from other people. But u cannot change who u r. And this doesn't mean that u have a bad personality. Maybe they r scared from u..maybe u make them feel inferior, maybe they just have nothing in common with u.. 1000 maybe..U can improve yrself but u cannot change what u r. And if u try to do it, the result is sth ugly. Find yrself. Who u really are, what u really like, what u really want. Let yr personality go out and someone will come sooner or later..

I know this problem..i live it now, i lived it in the past. But the only solution i found was this: Let my personality go out and wait. I was thinking (at the past) that i am a bad person, but at the end i found that i just do not match with most of people..and what can i do for that? i cannot change who i am..so i waited and I had good results..