My aunt is married to a 3 hundred something, lying, lazy, obnoxious person who should never have had kids but has a son who is about the same whos like 10 i think. Anyway my birthday and my sisters birthday party (her real bday is thanksgiving) is Saturday and my Aunt is invited but NOT her husband. Nobody in the family can stand him so of course no one really wants him to come over for anything not even thanksgiving or christmas. Shes all mad cuz hes not invited so shes refusing to come. (no other men will be there besides my poppie its basically the little girls just playing and having cake) but she just doesnt get that. So she decided shes jsut gunna drop this kid off and let us watch him because she doesnt want to come. hes gunna b the only boy and he is slow but he not being raised like he is so hes extremely obnoxious. he doesnt listen, can barely talk and is mean to the little girls so obviously theres no point in him being there. my grandparents say they are going to tell her he cant come if she doesnt but im pretty sure shes gunna find a way for both of them to come. She even asked if they could come for just 20 mins. the house is not very big and theres no where for him to sit but she just doesnt get it. Like he lives off government check, sits all day, doesnt take care of his kid, lies and spends what little money they have on stupid stuff like going out to dinner all the time and he bought a high-tech professional camera while his kid had no glasses. I REALLY REALLY hate him if you havent figured that out. nad everyone treats me like im some because i dont want to deal with them. its MY FREAKING BIRTHDAY FOR GOD SAKES!! He ruined Sammies birthday video because he was constently in the background telling stupid lies about what he "use to do" like how he was a professional photographer and a professional chef, im so sure. thats y he works less than 20 hrs a week stuffing newspapers in bags right? someone please tell me im not being irrational for wanting to have a quiet happy birthday.