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Strawberry Cheeks
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Lower Stomach Pains During Intercourse....
Posted: 11-13-07 11:34am
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Hi....
Never done this before but here goes...
I've recently started to experience
strange stomach pain in the lower areas of
my abdomen during intercourse.... it feels
somewhat like a cramp but im not sure... i
dont think this is normal.... It gets
worst when he's all the way in, to the
point that i cant even consentrate on the
two of us anymore....
If he's half way in or so then its not
bad....I dont really get any pain...
Im a lil worried.....
Has anyone ever experienced this?
Help please
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Tylanas
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Posted: 11-13-07 12:45pm
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It sounds like he's hitting your cervix
for sure. He needs to have shallower sex.
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Strawberry Cheeks
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Posted: 11-13-07 13:16pm
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| Eiri
wrote: | | It sounds like he's hitting
your cervix for sure. He needs to have
shallower
sex. |
Really???
LOL!!!
Is that all it is?
I was reading some other stories about ppl
having infections and stuff like that, but
I dont have anything, at least thats what
my last gyn appointment showed....
So what happens if he doesnt have
'shallower sex'?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 11-13-07 18:24pm
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If he doesn't have shallow sex then you
hurt. That's about it. He could cause
bruising if he hits the cervix too hard
and then you might bleed. So my advice is
to tell him to stop ramming you like a
slot machine!
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-13-07 18:37pm
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lol a slot machine?!
i agree with eiri it sounds llike
penetration is deep
or hes bruising your cervix
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Strawberry Cheeks
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Posted: 11-14-07 07:19am
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| the_girlfriend
wrote: | lol a slot machine?!
i agree with eiri it sounds llike
penetration is deep
or hes bruising your
cervix |
LOL!!!! Slot Machine!?! Gee, i dont think
its that bad! But thanks alot to the two
of you I was a bit worried
cuz it still feels strange when i have to
use the bathroom or anything like
that...... But ill be sure to tell him
that Im not a 'slot machine'! LOL!!!!!!!
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Georgia59
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Posted: 11-16-07 18:23pm
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My advice is to get on top and take
control!! much better that way. If deep
penetration hurts, you need to find better
positions where you can control the depth.
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Strawberry Cheeks
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Posted: 11-18-07 16:02pm
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Thanks I guess we would
have to find other positions so that i
dont get that discomforting
sensation.....
One more thing im wondering if you guys
could help me out with...
Since the uncomfortable lower stomach
pains started i've been getting another
discomfort when i use the bathroom... when
i urinate there is a forceful feeling
inside the virgina, almost as though it
makes me feel like i need to uriniate more
but it feels as though I would need to
push to do so. But this happens when im
done and there isnt anything else to come
out! ( LOL!!!! Gosh, im not sure im
explaining this feeling right) The tension
is strong and its beginning to disturb me
now....The feeling continues even after
ive stopped urinating but then it makes me
feel to go again shortly after, even if
there is nothing there.
Whats that about? Can anyone shed some
light on this one?
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postfetalphase
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Posted: 11-18-07 16:08pm
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urinary tract infection. I had one and
kept treating it for a few weeks with
cystex and cranberry pills, it would go
away and come back. Finally, I went to the
doctor (after I had alleviated the
symptoms for a little while) and they
found nothing. So it is treatable without
prescriptions but you have to be careful
or it could turn into a kidney infection.
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Strawberry Cheeks
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Posted: 11-18-07 17:09pm
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Thank you! i guess i should make a visit
to the gyn though...just to be
safe....damn!
The amount of things women have to go
through... i think it should be more than
fair for the guys to carry and deliver the
baby....given everything we already have
put up with! LOL!!!
But thank you very much for your advise!
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Strawberry Cheeks
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Posted: 11-18-07 22:52pm
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Oh, i almost forgot...how do you get an
uinary tract infection?
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Georgia59
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Posted: 11-18-07 22:52pm
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| Strawberry Cheeks
wrote: | Thank you! i guess i should
make a visit to the gyn though...just to
be safe....bless!
The amount of things women have to go
through... i think it should be more than
fair for the guys to carry and deliver the
baby....given everything we already have
put up with! LOL!!!
But thank you very much for your advise!
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I totally agree.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 11-18-07 22:56pm
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You can get them from sex- from stuff
getting pushed up into the urethra. You
should always pee after sex.
Or you can get them from lots of other
things as well, wiping wrong, treating
yeast infections, etc.
And if you have a uti, you will definitely
want to get checked so it doesn't develop
into a kidney infection.
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DANIEDONDIVA
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Posted: 11-23-07 14:21pm
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how would you know for a fact if u have a
uti cuz i too have lower stomach ache
during intercourse but he is not jamming
it in and if he is i tell him and he pulls
out some and after intercourse i always
have to pee and sometimes get the feeling
there's more just like the girl stated
earlier in her passage
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Strawberry Cheeks
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Posted: 11-23-07 14:46pm
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I was wondering the same thing and I
started my research, thats how i ended up
on this website. I must thank everyone for
their advise, the Cranberry Juice really
works... you can try that and see if it
helps, but you think the feeling is
unbearable then you really should monitor
it and if it does not improve, check the
doctor.
This is what I plan to do. So far, with
the juice intake, things really have
gotten alot better. I havent been sexually
active since though...sorta waiting to see
how things clear up.
During my search I came across this
website that gave me some of the symthoms
that I was expereincing.... maybe it might
help you. Another website even mentioned
pain during intercourse......
Read below:
" h
ttp://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/urinaryt
ractinfections.html
Also called: UTI
The urinary system consists of the
kidneys, ureters, bladder and urethra.
Infections of the urinary tract (UTIs) are
the second most common type of infection
in the body. You may have a UTI if you
notice
Pain or burning when you use the bathroom
Fever, tiredness or shakiness
An urge to use the bathroom often
Pressure in your lower belly
Urine that smells bad or looks cloudy or
reddish
If you think you have a UTI, it is
important to see your doctor. Your doctor
can tell if you have a UTI by testing a
sample of your urine. Treatment with
medicines to kill the infection will make
it better, often in one or two days."
You can check the website for more info.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 11-25-07 15:18pm
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You have to go to the doctor and get a
urine test to see if you have a uti.
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knf215
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Posted: 12-04-07 04:07am
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hey guys.
okay as far as the pain in the lower
stomach goes i can totally relate. what i
do is just remind myself to completly
relax--the pain turns into a pressure
which I, personally, have found enjoyable.
I think a lot of women tense up during
sex- especially if they are expecting
pain. breathe deep down and relax.
UTIs suck. at the first sign of any
symptoms drink lots of 100% pur cran
juice, not the cocktail stuff. and lots of
water. avoid caffiene and cigarettes for a
few days. You can go to the doctor if you
want but i have found if you just drink
lots of fluids there is no need.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 12-04-07 21:16pm
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Yes, for some UTI's cranberry juice and
lots of liquids will kill it. However, if
it is bad or the cranberry juice isn't
helping, you need to go in.
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haille
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Re: Lower Stomach Pains During Intercourse....
Posted: 12-09-07 14:56pm
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| Strawberry Cheeks
wrote: | Hi....
Never done this before but here goes...
I've recently started to experience
strange stomach pain in the lower areas of
my abdomen during intercourse.... it feels
somewhat like a cramp but im not sure... i
dont think this is normal.... It gets
worst when he's all the way in, to the
point that i cant even consentrate on the
two of us anymore....
If he's half way in or so then its not
bad....I dont really get any pain...
Im a lil worried.....
Has anyone ever experienced this?
Help please |
Yep, I have. I have determined based on
my experience that this is a size factor.
I would suggest learning to accommodate or
position yourself so that you can regulate
just how much goes when and when.
This will help you eliminate the pain.
When you learn to accommodate correctly,
this pain then turns sweet.
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The Mrs
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Posted: 12-09-07 15:16pm
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You can also get a medicine called ANzo at
a place like walgreens without a
prescription. It clears UTI's up in a
flash (and its made from cranberries), but
it turns your pee orange
Also, cranberry juice you generally buy
from the store will not help because they
contain sugars and are only a very small
percent actual juice. Only the
unsweetened kind helps, and yu can
probably find that in health stores like
GNC. It's reeeeally gross though, and I
happen to love regular cranberry juice.
I'd suggest getting Anzo. Sometimes even
doctors recommend getting it instead of a
prescription.
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