ok i have really go to talk to someone i
have a situation that i cant seem to
figure out..ok so my dh and i are
expecting a baby in february and we are
living with his mother right now which is
some what ok for now.. but his sisters
kids are here to and we are practically
rasing them their mom and dad dont have
anything to do with them.. and it really
bothers me because for one i hae to sit
and hear this little 4 year old cry her
self to sleep every night wanting her
mother.. wll thats not the main problem
though.. see she does not seem to care how
her kids are or anything she doesn't call
to check on them she doesnt come to see
them or anything. and see well she was so
called dating this guy well thats what she
called it but in all reality she was
really just using him for his money.. he
broke up with her cause the house that she
is living in he was paying for and she had
other men in and out of there while he was
out of town working (he is a truck driver)
he loves these kids to death and he would
do anything in the world for them or her
and she jusat used him.. well now she is
saying that me and my husband are plotting
agenst her just because we want her to
spend time with her kids.. she is trying
to break me and my husband up and you know
its hard cause i cant say anything to her
cause i dont want to stress out more than
i already am i mean hell i get at the most
of 4 hours of sleep and i have around 15
weeks left till by due date and i just
cant deal with more stress. what should i
do to be a better parent for my kids and a
better role model for her kids with out
dealing with all the critasisame?
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Marianne0558
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Posted: 11-13-07 11:13am
Record the little girl crying herself to
sleep for her mommy.
Play it for her.
I don't really know what else to say...
How stressful.
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angelinhiseyes2007
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Posted: 11-13-07 11:44am
yeah i have no clue what to do we called
her at work the other night to let her
talk to her and all she did was say ok i
love you night and hung up
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Mabel
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Posted: 11-13-07 12:46pm
I think this situation is not resolving
itself at all. You have been unhappy there
for a long time. It is time for you to
move for yourself and your own stability.
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Sandbox Party
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Joined: 25 Jul 2006 Posts: 7276
Posted: 11-13-07 12:58pm
agreed.
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Emma2
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Posted: 11-13-07 12:58pm
Where is the father? why doesnt she lived
with her kids? this is so disgusting! poor
babies
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angelinhiseyes2007
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Posted: 11-13-07 16:19pm
their father lost cutodie of them when the
4 year old was a baby.. and the mother
well signed her custodie over to there
grandmother my mother in law.. she works
fro 8 till 8 everyday to have money to
raise these kids cause their parents are
nothing but peices of crap...
