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Q: Masturbating the Best Stress Remedy

asked by: mr tibbs on November 13th, 2007

Experienced User

I have been under considerable stress recently. Yesterday I took a day off work just for a bit of relaxation. I started the day as usual by masturbating but instead of the usual fairly hurried session I took my time. I did it for about forty minutes without ejaculating.

I had a shower and spent the rest of the day relaxing and masturbating slowly. Again, without ejaculating. I did this every 90 minutes or so for about twenty minutes at a time. Each time I masturbated I felt less and less stressed. By the end of the day I felt really refreshed. I am lucky as I am uncircumcised and produce a lot of precum so there is very little soreness today - slight redness of the edge of the foreskin.

I have discovered a great natural and pleasant way to relieve stress. I think it has positive health benefits which are under rated!

Replies(18)

angellaura_81

replied on November 13th, 2007

Experienced User

i dont know how you can do that with out ejaculating!!! That'd frustrate the hell out of me!!!! But glad it works for you!

MikeH90

replied on November 13th, 2007

Experienced User

angellaura_81 wrote:

i dont know how you can do that with out ejaculating!!! That'd frustrate the hell out of me!!!! But glad it works for you!

I agree, I do just like the poster and do it all day long but eventually I have to finish. Talk about a lot of cum.

Question???

replied on November 13th, 2007

New User

I have done it that way too! I will jack-off almost to completion and stop then start up again. I do this for about 2-hours until I can't wait anymore and let loose. I am amazed on how much and how far I cant shoot.

MikeH90

replied on November 13th, 2007

Experienced User

Question??? wrote:

I love doing that, it shoots so far I feel like a porn star. ha ha.

mr tibbs

replied on November 15th, 2007

Experienced User

angellaura_81 wrote:

i dont know how you can do that with out ejaculating!!! That'd frustrate the hell out of me!!!! But glad it works for you!

You're right! When I first started masturbating this way it was very difficult not to go all the way. When I finished before completion the feeling was unbearable. However, I have been masturbating like this for about three years now - I wouldn't have it any other way!

I am always feeling aroused but in a very pleasant way. The actual sessions are really pleasant. If I have the time I can keep each session going for about an hour. After this the feeling of wishing to continue diminishes. The erection starts to slacken and I am left with a feeling of relaxation. I have now learned to ejaculate without having an orgasm so I do this once a week just to flush the system out. Retaining the ejaculate increases the pressure in the tubes thereby increasing the erotic feeling.

Occasionally I make a mistake and ejaculate with an orgasm. I hate this as it leaves me with a terrible anti-climax and I have to wait 48 hours before I can start again!

angellaura_81

replied on November 15th, 2007

Experienced User

I've heard that if you do this too much (stopping yourself from ejaculating) later you'll have difficulties cuming at all. Because your body is so use to stopping itself. So when you have sex with a women and you want to cum together, you can't because your body is use to stopping itself. I dont know how true that is though!! I've just heard it a few times. I cant stop myself! But women can keep cuming through clitoris stimulation over and over! well some of us!!

mr tibbs

replied on November 15th, 2007

Experienced User

Yes, I heard that and it worried me a bit. Strangely last time I had sex all seemed to work normally. As masturbating is my only sexual activity I am happy to be able to do it for prolonged sessions and frequently.

niner

replied on November 19th, 2007

New User

It's called "edging" and it's very common.

staystdfree

replied on November 22nd, 2007

New User

I Like Making Love to Myself!!!

as a female I do deal with alot of stress... And at night after a hot shower and a lay down and relax i just calmly put my hands in between me a begin to start my self up and try not to think about my stress it just makes me do my self harder and once i get there to my orgasmic feature i just keep doing myself over and over again till I can feel myself cum its very different then when i am having sex its a new feeling its comforting and relaxing but it really is a stress reliever

mr tibbs

replied on December 16th, 2007

Experienced User

niner wrote:

It's called "edging" and it's very common.

Hi Niner - No it's not edging this is more a situation where I can masturbate for long periods without reaching the phase where I am about to ejaculate. It took a lot of practice but this is how I always masturbate now.

I reach a certain plateau of enjoyment and keep it there at the same time stimulating my penis. I haven't ejaculated now for about three weeks. Each session reaches a conclusion automatically, funnily enough I feel more relaxed, the best thing is I am always in the mood to masturbate as I have a 'holistic erotic feeling' which is gentle, unlike the urgent feeling of horniness I used to have that could only be satisfied by a 5 minute wank and ejaculation that left me feeling dis-satisfied and exhausted!

ombre_engano

replied on December 16th, 2007

New User

That's always fun.

I sleep in the nude, so when I take a day off school and sleep in my bed I can't keep my hands off myself, I say it's also a remedy for the cold! lol.

UvulaMaster

replied on December 17th, 2007

New User

hey whats up guys

sometimes when i work too much at work i sneak off to the bathroom and masterbate on my break. it relieves the stress that builds up and also it helps me concentrate on my work. but i dont know what to do about my gigantic boner after because i have to literally think of math numbers and saggy boobs. anyway it gets in the way most of the time and i end up walking funny for the rest of the day. do you guys have any cold remedies on getting rid of your boners?

thanks.

JacobRyan

replied on December 17th, 2007

Experienced User

Yes. It is a great remedy; by the time I finish I forget what I was even worried about.

themarine

replied on December 21st, 2007

New User

Usually I Dont

usually I dont do it, because I am in the military and you have no private life. But i think exercising is the best relieve for strees. Masturbating is faster, but then you get use to it all the time. And then sex don't feels the same. And if you cant do it for whatever situation you are in trouble. lift wts or jogg and you are going to feel better.

figster63

replied on December 22nd, 2007

New User

Masterbailting is good but stick to your mid not porn. From personal experince my sex drive went down the drain after masturbaiting like 3 times a day to porn. But afer realizing this I now masterbait in the shower or with no porn and my sex drive is better than ever.

homerx

replied on February 20th, 2008

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Re: Masturbating the Best Stress Remedy

mr tibbs wrote:

intel

replied on February 21st, 2008

New User

mr tibbs wrote:

I have now learned to ejaculate without having an orgasm so I do this once a week just to flush the system out.

Occasionally I make a mistake and ejaculate with an orgasm. I hate this as it leaves me with a terrible anti-climax and I have to wait 48 hours before I can start again!

emmm, yours quit different from me. I manage to train my self to have multiple orgasm till it goes up my spine together with my girl then ejaculate when I want to or my girl want me to. Sometime I stop without ejaculate and cuddling together instead after my girl has had enough while I relax and cares her. Good sex is a stress reliever, indeed.

intel

replied on February 21st, 2008

New User

mr tibbs wrote:

I have now learned to ejaculate without having an orgasm ........
Occasionally I make a mistake and ejaculate with an orgasm.....

emmm, it quite different from me, while I was able to train myself experiencing multiple orgasm together with my girl till it goes up my spine before ejaculating after my girl wanted me to or I wanted to. Sometime I stop without ejaculating and just lying there cares for my girl. It is definitely a stress reliever. hehe

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