Hi
I have recently been married and both my
husband and i are virgins, we are having a
problem having sex.
For some reason its hard for him to get
his penis inside, i know i need to be
broken in aswell, but im finding it
difficult to really know what im suppose
to do?
We have both tried foreplay and slowly
going to do it, but everytime its really
diffcult, we have used lots of ky but we
have no idea.
I really need some advice on what to do,
so please anyone.
Thank you
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PenguinsRus
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Joined: 05 Nov 2007 Posts: 1224 Location: New York, NY United States
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Posted: 11-13-07 10:56am
I would try easing up to it. Foreplay is
a good idea to lubricate, but sometimes
lubrication isnt the only problem. You
should try working her way up so she is
less tight and able to have sex easier.
Start out fingering her. Then move onto
two fingers, then three, and then a
smaller toy (not all in the same day
necessarily, just over time). Eventually
she should feel less pain and it should go
in a bit easier.
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Joey9725
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Oct 2005 Posts: 32 Location: Sydney
Posted: 08-22-08 21:50pm
But how can is get easier if each time it
feels uncomfortable and it hurts?
I agree with PenguinsRus...you can't rush
these things. Perhaps, hold off on sex for
awhile...and work on solely foreplay
stuff. In an evening, just devote it to
fingering or oral sex. If you aren't
giving your body time to work it's way up
to a penis...it's going to hurt like hell.
Why don't you hold off on sex for
awhile...and do more foreplay. You can
relax during foreplay (i'm assuming) and
you'll give your vagina time to get used
to more pressure it in (like there is
during sex).
