It's hard to understand what a person goes through when they have anxiety. I know because I have it too but im on medication so it makes things easier for me. Is she on any type of medication? Why don't you go over to her house and spend time with here there? If you love her then you will stick by her through all of this. You need to talk to her about it and tell her that you would like to see her more.Just comfort her because it sounds like she needs it right about now.

You sound just like my boyfriend. I’m kind of a spaz when it comes to school, work, and especially sex, and if this were a few months earlier and for a few details, I'd say you were him.

Your problems with seeing each other could possibly be solved by a little better communication-- not that you have poor communication now. Try making a schedule of times you can see each other. Homework sucks so I usually feel better when I take a break to talk to my boyfriend. See if you can plan little breaks where you don't do anything but be together. No homework or work. At first those times where hard for me to work out but now its a part of my day I look forward to most. What about weekends? And try staying in to watch movies, that way you can cuddle close and not have to worry about driving to the theater. It may be less stress for her and having you physically close just to sit and relax would probably be really nice.

Have you tried talking to her and asking why she gets so panicked or doesn’t feel comfortable doing things physically? Try asking why she gets so panicked. Maybe she doesn’t know what to do? Maybe she’s had a bad experience before? Maybe she’s just not ready for that step? Talking about it is a good way to break the ice. I had a really hard time with doing anything physical with my boyfriend until he finally sat me down and asked what was going on and we had to have the conversation a lot before everything finally got worked out since I was silly and didn’t say everything all at once. So remember to be patient and understanding! If you love the girl then it will be worth it!

Just be patient all around. You’ve only been together 3 months and sometimes schedules and routines are hard to set and you’re still getting used to each other as a couple. Things will get easier and I hope this helps!

Thank you, thats def. helped..i feel a little better about the situation...but i do feel rejected sometimes, but i know she has anxiety so i let it go..

My boyfriend felt the same way, and I used to have to reassure him a lot. As long as you are able to talk things over and work out the problems.

Did you manage to have a nice talk about things? It is a relationship and you shouldn't be feeling rejected all the time. She may not even know there's a problem if she's been stressing over school and what not. Just be calm about things when you do talk about them. Let her know you're not pressuring the physical stuff and just want to work things out around her studying and both your schedules.