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Q: She Just Left Me!
asked by: loner25 on November 12th, 2007
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Well Iam 20 and I started dating an 18 year old, things seemed perfect at first and she was the person that had made me feel so happy all the time that i was with her. we would mostly see each other every day when she was out for school, she showed me how much she really liked me and all, I honestly couldnt of asked for more in my life. We went out one night to dance, and we had lots of fun an all and then i took her home, but the next day, I called her she didnt answer, all she did was text me and said she will call me later, but she never did, I kept calling her and calling her through out the week and nothing, she wouldn answer her calls she wouldn text me, until one day she finally answerd me and she was sleeping she told me that she will call me later, but she never did, she send me a txt message on a saterday telling me that she didnt want to be with me anymore, i tried calling her but she wouldn answer my phone calls. and thats how it all ended with a single text message, so that was it, and i havent heard from her for about three weeks wen my cousins wanted to go the bar, (the bar where she works at and i met her at) so i decided wat the heck, so i see her their and the unexpected, she was back with her ex-boyfriend, I didnt know wat to do, she tried talking to me but i ignored her, I didnt want be their so i left. 2 weeks later she comes back to me telling me that she really missed me and that if she thinks that we might have another chance, I was so in love with this girl that i decided to give it another chance after asking her to promise me ever again not to just leave me that way she did and that nothing will get in out way. She promised. So again it was all good, everyting was going back to normal. Until unfortunalty one day she calls me and appreantly her sister got killed in a car accident, I didnt understand, she didnt want to talk to me, she didnt want my support at all, she didnt want me to come to her sisters funeral, although i did but she ignored me and didnt bother to come to me and say a word instead she just walks past me. Again back to step one since her sister died about a month ago and again i havent heard back from her, i tried going to her house, but shes not their, she wont return my calls. I just dont know what to do anymore! iam so hearbroken, and every person that i talk to about this issue just doesnt seem to care much becasue they have enough to worry about, and my father is an alcoholic and its hard to talk to him, but what should I do, I miss her so much, but i dont wan to bother her no more. Why would she do this to me??
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Maddie34
replied on November 12th, 2007
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I'm sorry things have been going so hard for you!

I'm not sure what is going through her mind, but I can say that if my sister was killed in an accident I would probably have done the same-- not just to you, but to everyone but my family, not that it's a healthy way to handle it. Was she REALLY close to her sister? Even if she wasn't this could be an extremely hard time for her and her family.

I know its hard but try to be patient with her! All you can really do is be there for her when she's ready for you to be. And try not to dwell too much on what happened in the past. The situation has changed and you can't liken what she did before to whats happening now. You know what I mean?

I wish you and that poor girl the best!
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blondie_899
replied on November 12th, 2007
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Im sorry to hear about that. The first reason why she proably broke up with you is because she had feelings for her ex and she didn't want to hurt you.So she ignores you instead.Something proably happened with her and her ex so then she went running back to you.I know that alot of girls like to have that one guy that they can always fall back on if something ever wrong happens.For now just be her friend and don't call her alot.She will call you when she is ready.I wouldn't wait around on her forever though.Just give it time.I know things are hard for you right now.Try and keep yourself busy.It doesn't help if you just sit there thinking about things.
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