Do I have aids/hiv ? 8 months last time I got tested ... Posted: 11-12-07 16:27pm
ok, it's been 2 weeks since i last has
intercourse...
since then, i've been freaking out about
wether or not i'd have aids/hiv. last time
i got tested, was almost 8 months ago.
my partner last got tested in September
07. it was her first test, and her LAST
partner BEFORE the test was "at least 3
months ago." her first and last partner
AFTER the test was with a married man
(wore a condom).
i asked if she's experienced any flu-like
symptoms, she said no.
(i know that it's sometimes asymptomatic)
i haven't been tested yet. i plan on
getting tested at the 3 month mark....but
these last 2 weeks have been terrible.
i've been having depressing thoughts about
"what if" i had this...what am i going to
do...all that.
i haven't shown any symptoms
yet...yesterday and today, i've had very
very mild diarrhea...nothing like "just
water." i think that's just a dietary
thing...i haven't been eating too much
fiber. weight is still fine. i get the
occasional sneeze and cough, but nothing
serious; get that every once and a while,
even before this.
what do you guy think?
i do get night sweats, but i've been
getting that for a while now...big fellas
normally do.
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sillysallie1990
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Oct 2007 Posts: 308 Location: ,
Posted: 11-12-07 16:29pm
if you are sooo nervous about it go get
tested that is the only answer to your
problem...
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whoami568
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2007 Posts: 8
Posted: 11-12-07 16:31pm
i plan on doing that...it's just too
early.
i just want everyones opinion on my
partner. it's been at least 3 months since
her last test.
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sillysallie1990
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Joined: 03 Oct 2007 Posts: 308 Location: ,
Posted: 11-12-07 16:40pm
i dunno... you are probably just sick.
you used condoms right?
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whoami568
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2007 Posts: 8
Posted: 11-12-07 16:51pm
no, that's why i'm worried.
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sillysallie1990
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Oct 2007 Posts: 308 Location: ,
Posted: 11-12-07 16:57pm
looks like it is time to play the waiting
game... but keep in mind that just because
you have been sick doesnt mean you are
inffected most people dont have symptoms
sounds like you might be being a little
paranoid... and even if you had sex with
someone that is for sure inffected there
is a very small like less then 3% chance
that you would get inffected...
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whoami568
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2007 Posts: 8
Posted: 11-12-07 17:00pm
well, ya. my partner keeps saying that i'm
extremely paranoid. she's also starting to
get offended when i ask her about these
things.
i'm going to wait...i'd just like to hear
other opinions. thank you though
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sillysallie1990
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Oct 2007 Posts: 308 Location: ,
Posted: 11-12-07 17:02pm
yeah no prob
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Aarvy
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Joined: 12 Nov 2007 Posts: 12
Chances Are Near Zero. Posted: 11-13-07 03:23am
Your symptoms are that of Anxiety and
Stress and nothing at all.
YOU MUST READ THIS!
This 19yr old mother of a 2ry old has one
day experienced some fever and flu like
symptoms. She's checking online casually
and some how got to this forum and started
to understand her symptoms relate to a HIV
infection. She's written that her kid's
not with his father and how scared she got
learning that she could die soon of HIV if
she was infected at all. I would like you
to step into her shoes and feel the
moments she might have experienced. Think
how hard it is to imagine that your loved
ones are going to miss you and might end
up help-less for their whole life.
Now all this happened only on the
assumption that the symptoms were that of
HIV and not knowing it for sure. If you
read these posts, you will understand all
of them are posted with similar doubts in
mind. And all these posts were written
with the circumstances they experienced
and not the result of the tests they
took.
If you can spare few minutes of your time
and post your test result, then consider
you are helping thousands of scared(as you
are now) people get relieved of their
tension. SO PLEASE POST YOUR TEST RESULT
ONCE YOU GET IT, SO PEOPLE CAN RELATE
THIER CIRCUMSTANCES WITH THE ACTUAL
OUTCOMES!
HIV Facts! (Not the ones you already know
of)
HIV is not that easy to get. It will not
venture out like a cold virus. HIV must
inject its RNA into the human cell and
just cannot live on the side like other
viruses. You must consistently and
thoroughly help it attach itself to a
human cell. Remember it is not a human
disease in the first place. It is only
about 50yr old and still evolving to be a
human virus and it will take atleast a few
thousand years before it can look out for
a human host.
Risk per 10,000 unprotected exposures to
an infected source
A cut on your finger in the morning might
have already had a plasmatic coating in
about 4Hrs which will usually not allow
HIV to enter in. For a better chance of
infection the cut must be reasonably big,
minutes fresh and with sufficient HIV
virus load. There is virtually 0% cases
reported world-wide that some one got
infected by cut-wound blood transfusion.
HIV infection through oral activity has
about 90% less chances because the HIV
virus does not live outside the fluid for
more than about a minute and saliva,
stomach juices are not good carriers.
HIV did not infect many people who had sex
several hundred times with their HIV +ve
partners unknowingly. Human body has some
unknown resistance to this virus and is
well proven with many people so far.
HIV can be tested accurately(95%) starting
from 2 weeks of possible exposure by a
PCR-DNA test. Relatively Costly. Looks for
HIV in the blood. False Positives are
relatively higher than False Negatives.
HIV can be tested accurately(95%) starting
from 3 months of possible exposure by
antigen and antibody tests (eg: ELISA).
Looks for anti-bodies in the blood that
fight HIV. Tests for all strains of HIV.
HIV cannot stay in the body un-detected by
our recent testing methods. Chances of
non-detection are almost near zero.
HIV can be cured if PEP(ART treatment)
program is given starting within 72 hours
of possible exposure and continued for 2-3
months. The success ratio is 70-80% and
many health-care workers who get stung by
infected needles take this program and a
survey suggests zero out of 400 of
accidentally infected people treated with
PEP program did not get HIV for life.
HIV Symptoms: Usually noticed between 2 to
3 weeks of possible exposure. Flu, Fever,
Sore Throats, Lymph Node Swells, Skin
Rashes(Mostly on the torso), Night Sweats,
Fatigue & Tiredness. Only about 80-90%
of people notice some of these symptoms.
95% of people who feel the above symptoms
without being tested does not have HIV.
The reason for such symptoms are the
bodily reactions controlled by stressed
out minds as HIV is a deadly disease. Mind
has the ability to simulate the symptoms
in the body if your stress is so much that
you think you might die soon.
Most of the HIV surveys so far are
compiled on HIV aggressive areas like
Thailand Drug Usage areas, African Bush
meat eating areas, Asian sex-working areas
etc. So your chances of infection are only
10% of those published in the surveys.
Religion, Spiritual Transition, Redemption
are some of the effective ways to pass
your time while awaiting your test
results. Like most of them you will lack
concentration on work and many make a
mistake by spending time alone. Instead
spend your time with your close ones,
friends, relatives and some time with your
God. Every one commits sin in several ways
and moments like this can be wisely used
to your benefit by redeeming yourself into
a better person. It need not be sexual
sins alone, think of all those un-worthy
things you did, pass your time thinking
how you can better yourself if you are
given a second chance of life. I am 100%
sure you will be given this second
chance.
We take time giving practical facts and
help relive your stress, We expect you to
take few minutes of your time to relive
stress of several thousand users of these
forums by POSTING YOUR TEST RESULTS! I
know for sure 99% of people will get -ve
results which is why they forget to come
back to the forums. If they are +ve then
they would definitely come for more info
and would generally respond to the posts.
So, Please once again POST YOUR TEST
RESULTS!
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sinnersaint
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2007 Posts: 18
Posted: 11-13-07 11:03am
sillysallie1990
wrote:
i dunno... you are probably
just sick. you used condoms
right?
whoami568
wrote:
no, that's why i'm
worried.
Could you please tell me what is that you
mean when you say, you didn't condoms
correctly. No disrespect, but I don't
think using a condom in the correct manner
is rocket science or maybe is it? I don't
know, am still a virgin.
So, please do explain it
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Marianne0558
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Posted: 11-13-07 11:09am
sinnersaint
wrote:
sillysallie1990
wrote:
i dunno... you are probably
just sick. you used condoms
right?
whoami568
wrote:
no, that's why i'm
worried.
Could you please tell me what is that you
mean when you say, you didn't condoms
correctly. No disrespect, but I don't
think using a condom in the correct manner
is rocket science or maybe is it? I don't
know, am still a virgin.
So, please do explain
it
He never said he didn't use condoms
correctly. He said he didn't use condoms
at all.
Incorrect
uses of condoms:
using a condom that is several months old.
using a condom that has not been stored in
a reasonably cool, dry place. using
oil-based lube with a latex condom. using
condoms that do not meet FDA standards
(many flavored or novelty condoms fall
into this category). using a condom that
is too large (this may fall into Nance’s
first condom-misuse category). saving the
condom until just before ejaculation.
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whoami568
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Nov 2007 Posts: 8
Re: Chances Are Near Zero. Posted: 11-17-07 20:20pm
Aarvy
wrote:
Your symptoms are that of
Anxiety and Stress and nothing at all.
HIV can be tested accurately(95%) starting
from 3 months of possible exposure by
antigen and antibody tests (eg: ELISA).
Looks for anti-bodies in the blood that
fight HIV. Tests for all strains of
HIV.
can HIV be detected with a regular STD
standard test? or does it have to be
SPECIFICALLY a PCR or ELISA test?