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whoami568

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Do I have aids/hiv ? 8 months last time I got tested ...
Posted: 11-12-07 16:27pm

ok, it's been 2 weeks since i last has intercourse...

since then, i've been freaking out about wether or not i'd have aids/hiv. last time i got tested, was almost 8 months ago.

my partner last got tested in September 07. it was her first test, and her LAST partner BEFORE the test was "at least 3 months ago." her first and last partner AFTER the test was with a married man (wore a condom).
i asked if she's experienced any flu-like symptoms, she said no.

(i know that it's sometimes asymptomatic)

i haven't been tested yet. i plan on getting tested at the 3 month mark....but these last 2 weeks have been terrible. i've been having depressing thoughts about "what if" i had this...what am i going to do...all that.

i haven't shown any symptoms yet...yesterday and today, i've had very very mild diarrhea...nothing like "just water." i think that's just a dietary thing...i haven't been eating too much fiber. weight is still fine. i get the occasional sneeze and cough, but nothing serious; get that every once and a while, even before this.


what do you guy think?

i do get night sweats, but i've been getting that for a while now...big fellas normally do.
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sillysallie1990

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Posted: 11-12-07 16:29pm

if you are sooo nervous about it go get tested that is the only answer to your problem...
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whoami568

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Posted: 11-12-07 16:31pm

i plan on doing that...it's just too early.

i just want everyones opinion on my partner. it's been at least 3 months since her last test.
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sillysallie1990

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Posted: 11-12-07 16:40pm

i dunno... you are probably just sick. you used condoms right?
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whoami568

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Posted: 11-12-07 16:51pm

no, that's why i'm worried.
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sillysallie1990

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Posted: 11-12-07 16:57pm

looks like it is time to play the waiting game... but keep in mind that just because you have been sick doesnt mean you are inffected most people dont have symptoms sounds like you might be being a little paranoid... and even if you had sex with someone that is for sure inffected there is a very small like less then 3% chance that you would get inffected...
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whoami568

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Posted: 11-12-07 17:00pm

well, ya. my partner keeps saying that i'm extremely paranoid. she's also starting to get offended when i ask her about these things.

i'm going to wait...i'd just like to hear other opinions. thank you though
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sillysallie1990

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Posted: 11-12-07 17:02pm

yeah no prob
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Aarvy

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Chances Are Near Zero.
Posted: 11-13-07 03:23am

Your symptoms are that of Anxiety and Stress and nothing at all.

YOU MUST READ THIS!

This 19yr old mother of a 2ry old has one day experienced some fever and flu like symptoms. She's checking online casually and some how got to this forum and started to understand her symptoms relate to a HIV infection. She's written that her kid's not with his father and how scared she got learning that she could die soon of HIV if she was infected at all. I would like you to step into her shoes and feel the moments she might have experienced. Think how hard it is to imagine that your loved ones are going to miss you and might end up help-less for their whole life.



Now all this happened only on the assumption that the symptoms were that of HIV and not knowing it for sure. If you read these posts, you will understand all of them are posted with similar doubts in mind. And all these posts were written with the circumstances they experienced and not the result of the tests they took.



If you can spare few minutes of your time and post your test result, then consider you are helping thousands of scared(as you are now) people get relieved of their tension. SO PLEASE POST YOUR TEST RESULT ONCE YOU GET IT, SO PEOPLE CAN RELATE THIER CIRCUMSTANCES WITH THE ACTUAL OUTCOMES!



HIV Facts! (Not the ones you already know of)

HIV is not that easy to get. It will not venture out like a cold virus. HIV must inject its RNA into the human cell and just cannot live on the side like other viruses. You must consistently and thoroughly help it attach itself to a human cell. Remember it is not a human disease in the first place. It is only about 50yr old and still evolving to be a human virus and it will take atleast a few thousand years before it can look out for a human host.



Risk per 10,000 unprotected exposures to an infected source

Blood transfusion ---- 9,000
Needle-sharing injection-drug use ---- 67
Receptive anal intercourse ---- 50
Percutaneous needle stick ---- 30
Receptive penile-vaginal intercourse ---- 10
Insertive anal intercourse ---- 6.5
Insertive penile-vaginal intercourse ----- 5
Receptive oral intercourse ---- 1
Insertive oral intercourse ---- 0.5



A cut on your finger in the morning might have already had a plasmatic coating in about 4Hrs which will usually not allow HIV to enter in. For a better chance of infection the cut must be reasonably big, minutes fresh and with sufficient HIV virus load. There is virtually 0% cases reported world-wide that some one got infected by cut-wound blood transfusion.



HIV infection through oral activity has about 90% less chances because the HIV virus does not live outside the fluid for more than about a minute and saliva, stomach juices are not good carriers.



HIV did not infect many people who had sex several hundred times with their HIV +ve partners unknowingly. Human body has some unknown resistance to this virus and is well proven with many people so far.



HIV can be tested accurately(95%) starting from 2 weeks of possible exposure by a PCR-DNA test. Relatively Costly. Looks for HIV in the blood. False Positives are relatively higher than False Negatives.



HIV can be tested accurately(95%) starting from 3 months of possible exposure by antigen and antibody tests (eg: ELISA). Looks for anti-bodies in the blood that fight HIV. Tests for all strains of HIV.



HIV cannot stay in the body un-detected by our recent testing methods. Chances of non-detection are almost near zero.



HIV can be cured if PEP(ART treatment) program is given starting within 72 hours of possible exposure and continued for 2-3 months. The success ratio is 70-80% and many health-care workers who get stung by infected needles take this program and a survey suggests zero out of 400 of accidentally infected people treated with PEP program did not get HIV for life.



HIV Symptoms: Usually noticed between 2 to 3 weeks of possible exposure. Flu, Fever, Sore Throats, Lymph Node Swells, Skin Rashes(Mostly on the torso), Night Sweats, Fatigue & Tiredness. Only about 80-90% of people notice some of these symptoms. 95% of people who feel the above symptoms without being tested does not have HIV. The reason for such symptoms are the bodily reactions controlled by stressed out minds as HIV is a deadly disease. Mind has the ability to simulate the symptoms in the body if your stress is so much that you think you might die soon.



Most of the HIV surveys so far are compiled on HIV aggressive areas like Thailand Drug Usage areas, African Bush meat eating areas, Asian sex-working areas etc. So your chances of infection are only 10% of those published in the surveys.



Religion, Spiritual Transition, Redemption are some of the effective ways to pass your time while awaiting your test results. Like most of them you will lack concentration on work and many make a mistake by spending time alone. Instead spend your time with your close ones, friends, relatives and some time with your God. Every one commits sin in several ways and moments like this can be wisely used to your benefit by redeeming yourself into a better person. It need not be sexual sins alone, think of all those un-worthy things you did, pass your time thinking how you can better yourself if you are given a second chance of life. I am 100% sure you will be given this second chance.



We take time giving practical facts and help relive your stress, We expect you to take few minutes of your time to relive stress of several thousand users of these forums by POSTING YOUR TEST RESULTS! I know for sure 99% of people will get -ve results which is why they forget to come back to the forums. If they are +ve then they would definitely come for more info and would generally respond to the posts. So, Please once again POST YOUR TEST RESULTS!
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sinnersaint

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Posted: 11-13-07 11:03am

sillysallie1990 wrote:
i dunno... you are probably just sick. you used condoms right?


whoami568 wrote:
no, that's why i'm worried.



Could you please tell me what is that you mean when you say, you didn't condoms correctly. No disrespect, but I don't think using a condom in the correct manner is rocket science or maybe is it? I don't know, am still a virgin.

So, please do explain it
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Marianne0558

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Posted: 11-13-07 11:09am

sinnersaint wrote:
sillysallie1990 wrote:
i dunno... you are probably just sick. you used condoms right?


whoami568 wrote:
no, that's why i'm worried.



Could you please tell me what is that you mean when you say, you didn't condoms correctly. No disrespect, but I don't think using a condom in the correct manner is rocket science or maybe is it? I don't know, am still a virgin.

So, please do explain it


He never said he didn't use condoms correctly. He said he didn't use condoms at all.
Incorrect uses of condoms:
using a condom that is several months old. using a condom that has not been stored in a reasonably cool, dry place. using oil-based lube with a latex condom. using condoms that do not meet FDA standards (many flavored or novelty condoms fall into this category). using a condom that is too large (this may fall into Nance’s first condom-misuse category). saving the condom until just before ejaculation.
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whoami568

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Re: Chances Are Near Zero.
Posted: 11-17-07 20:20pm

Aarvy wrote:
Your symptoms are that of Anxiety and Stress and nothing at all.

HIV can be tested accurately(95%) starting from 3 months of possible exposure by antigen and antibody tests (eg: ELISA). Looks for anti-bodies in the blood that fight HIV. Tests for all strains of HIV.


can HIV be detected with a regular STD standard test? or does it have to be SPECIFICALLY a PCR or ELISA test?
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