well, you have the option of not buying toys made in china. china does make 80% of our toys, so there won't be as much of a huge variety, plus you'll have to pay more.
i don't know if i'm a little too lax, but this doesn't really phase me. if a toy is recalled i will take it away, but i'm not going to shy away from china-made goods just because of this. my toys were probably dripping with lead when i was a baby, and i'm still here.