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Q: Problems Getting Off

asked by: spencerbobby on November 9th, 2007

New User

Hello friends iam glad to have found this site iam 17 years old and have a girlfriend and we recently engaged in oral sex but iam having problems orgasming i never seem to get off i have had this problem with girls in the past yet my first experience with oral sex i got right off now iam seeming to have problems my girlfriend was performing for nearly 40 minutes and nothing please help me it sucks for me and makes her feel dissapointed in herself?

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marvel

replied on November 9th, 2007

Supporter

Sometimes guys get off too soon.. other times, guys can't get off at all.

Are you nervous or really excited when you two fool around? It could be nerves. Does she turn you on? If so, I would just talk to her about it and make sure she knows that it's not anything she's doing wrong.

Good Luck.

spencerbobby

replied on November 9th, 2007

New User

Yeah

yeah she turns me on and iam not nervous at all but like i just dont seem to finish up i get to a certain level and then stay there its odd.. she tells me i have a large penis she has a small mouth and can barely hit my past mark this could be an issue.. but i have reassured her theres nothing wrong i just want to know why...

marvel

replied on November 9th, 2007

Supporter

have you tried anything else except oral sex? Many guys can't get off from a blowjob.

spencerbobby

replied on November 11th, 2007

New User

marvel wrote:

have you tried anything else except oral sex? Many guys can't get off from a blowjob.

she tried giving me a handjob.. but always was in an akward kinda position with my pants still kinda on.. once they went off she used her mouth.. but ive gotten off from a blowjob once before just not my past few times

marvel

replied on November 11th, 2007

Supporter

try a few new things to spice it up and see if it helps. It just might be that getting a blowjob doesn't stimulate you most effectively. Yes, you've gotten off on it before, but there might be better things. Try buying some lube and using it while you two are together. You never know!

spencerbobby

replied on November 12th, 2007

New User

Thanks

thank you for your advice but today i succesfully blew all i needed was a handjob and some visual.. but lube is not a bad idea i already have some i might bring it one time thank you

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