Hello ladies. I have kind of a crappy situation on my hands. I got told about 3-4 months ago that my daughter was at the babysitters playing out in one of those houses with the kids, and it was brought up about her asking the other kids to show everyons "pee pees" Well the babysitter brought this up to me, and i spoke with my daughter, and she said that she didin't say it. I asked her 2, or 3 times, and she always told me mom i didn't say it. Well i'm not sure on the real story, and i really don't think the babysitter does either. But we both talked to Chyanne, and i'm guessing she talked to the other kids that were out side that day. But I told Chyanne whether she said it or not that talking about each others pee pees is nothing a 6 year old needs to be talking about, and if someone else is talking about it leave, and go play somewhere else because it's wrong.

Well i get to the babysitters yesterday, and this time they were outside in this house, and Chyanne was telling the kids to pull down their pants. When i went to pick up chyanne from the sitters she was upset, and i asked her what was wrong, and she said she had a tummy ache. We sat there talking while she got her stuff together, and the sitter said she's mad cause she got in trouble. I asked chyanne why she got in trouble, and she wouldn't tell me. Well this went on for a couple of mins, and then the sitter told me why she was in trouble. I asked chyanne why she did this, and where is she getting this from. All she would tell me is she got it from "no where"

Long story short...sorry I don't understand any of it. I know she's not getting this from home, or tv. We don't do ANYTHING like this at home, and we don't watch any type of tv shows where she would be getting this from. But it seems like all the blame is always on her, and what about these other kids outside. I know there are a couple of really naughty boys at the sitters, and i have a feeling that maybe she's being pushed into saying, or acting like this. Or seeing someone else do it, and thinking it's funny, or cute. But the time before i guess one of the mothers took her kid out of child care with my sitter because of the pee pee thing. I'm scared to death of this happening again, and losing my daycare. I work 4-12, and i'm damn lucky to find this daycare that is 24 hours. And with a new baby coming in 6 weeks, or less, i would be screwed

And to top it all off. This part makes me just wanna cry, but now she's not allowed to go outside with the other kids, or be alone with the kids on the house. She has to be out in the kitchen when the sitter makes supper so she can be watched at all times. She's making my 6 year old look like a freaking pedifile, or a sex maniac. And to think that i'm bringing her there so she can sit by herself for 8 hours just breaks my heart. I don't know what to do.