i usually dont orgadm during sex but i usually feel satisfied becaise he is ya know? and even though i dont orgasm it feels good....

but yes there are two different kinds of orgasms... vaginal (only about teon % of women can have these...) and clitoral orgam...

there are MANY types of orgasms. they are kind of like shoes, they come in all different sizes and styles. some are big and flashy, while others are flat but comfortable.

for any one wondering about their vagina and sex. there are a few books that are very helpful and educational. ironically, the more you know about your vagina the better the sex and foeplay will be.

(i was amazed to find out that only 10% of women can actually have a vaginal orgasm.)

Yes there are, though it sounds like you aren't having the second kind. Still, satisfaction can come from sex anyway, even without orgasm.

You have clitoral orgasms with are very common. It's hard to stimulate the clitoris during sex with just the penis, so many couples use their hands to stimulate it, thus allowing the woman to orgasm during sex.

The other kind of orgasm is vaginal. This is rare, and it doesn't sound like you have them. It involves stimulation of the female g-spot and quite frankly makes you feel like you have to pee.

I am the same way. Unless if I am touching myself while we are having sex, I can not have an orgasm. I'm still always feeling satisfied afterwards though, and I think its because I know that I make him happy and we made love which is a beautiful act in itself. If you want to orgasm while the two of you are having sex, try touching yourself or using a toy (vibrating ring that goes on his penis or something of the sort) to help you along.

sorry guys i didnt mean to post that three times in fact i am not sure how i did... feel free to fix it cause i am not sure how....

I can have three different types of orgasms. 1. The first is cliterol stimulation, by oral sex or a toy 2. Anal sex with a vibrator 3. Regular sex.

The first one is pretty easy to accomplish and feels really good but I only have the feeling in my pelvic area. The second one is easy also. We have anal sex and I use a vibrator on my clit. This orgasm is amazing. The orgasm goes through my entire body and leaves me feeling weak and disoriented. Regular sex can be very difficult and doesnt happen very often. I have to have A LOT of oral sex or manual stimilation first. But it doesnt feel the same,and its not as powerful as an orgasm with direct contact to my clit. Orgasm by regular sex is also only felt in my pelvic area. So anal sex orgasm is probably the most powerful.

But either way they are all soooo much fun and I love doing all of them.....I need to go home now and rape hubby..... = )

LOL

My husband and I have tried anal sex a few times, but it hurts so much, we don't go very far. I have only experienced the one.

my bf was giving me oroal and then put finger in my butt and in my vagina and oh my god it was so hot i orgasmed in less then a minute!!! so i understand the whole anal thing!!!

I think your husband should try what sillysally's did: just a finger in there during oral sex. A finger is way smaller than just about anything coming "out" so it doesn't hurt unless you're scared.