Hey there, I was wondering if any of you
lovely ladies could give me some advice
about giving oral, I would like guys
inputs too but I know they aren't allowed
in this bit and I am not allowed in their
chat bit...
Anyway, this is the situation:
I have given oral twice to the same guy
and I really enjoy doing it and I know he
likes it a lot, makes his toes go tingly
and him lose feeling in his face, said it
was the best feeling he had ever had
without coming... so how do I make him
come? He said I need more of a rhythm and
to use my hand and mouth at the same time
(we are always telling each other how to
make our experiences better, wasn't just
him being picky and annoying) but I can't
do that, I just don't seem to be able to
coordinate hand and mouth no matter how
much I try, and its driving me bananas! I
know you will probably say practice is
key, but I am worried I will never be able
to make it happen. Well not worried, more
frustrated as I know I am good at the rest
of it, just the coordination thing (at
school I was made to learn drums, couldn't
do it, feet and hands together just did
not work, was also useless at aerobics).
He even said himself that the stuff I was
doing with my tongue especially felt
amazing, he just couldn't come without
more of a rhythm.
Any ideas?
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Rosie H
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Posted: 11-08-07 15:12pm
Ask him to use his hand with your mouth,
Try to coordinate together. Maybe have him
use is hand and you use only your mouth.
Or ask him to put his hand over your hand
and let him move your hand up and down his
haft or have him squeeze your hand
himself. Porno's really demenstrate for
you.
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Pease Blossom
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Aug 2007 Posts: 18 Location: UK
Posted: 11-08-07 15:51pm
Thanks Rosie, if I see him again (he is
really busy with uni) I will suggest that.
He put some porn on ages ago to show me
how to give head but it just made me feel
inferior so we turned it off. I am a bit
silly like that.
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Rosie H
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Posted: 11-08-07 16:55pm
I completely understand how that can make
you feel. I used to feel really bad. But
it changed when I was the one wanting to
learn. When he would try to tell me this
is how you do it or show me movies or
pictures it would make me feel bad. So
you know what I did. I learned by myself.
yep thats right. when he wasnt around I
would watch the movies and pay attention
to what they did and didnt do. Then when
I had enough confidence I tryed it out on
him. He was none the wiser. He just
thought I was always good. Pornos can be
misleading and not all men like the same
things in the movies, but just try it.
Theres no harm in learning and exploring
his body. It will be a total turn on for
him when he finds out the effort you put
into pleasing him. But remember to do
this because you would like it not because
he wants you too. Thats the key.......
Enjoy......
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Pease Blossom
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Aug 2007 Posts: 18 Location: UK
Posted: 11-08-07 17:53pm
Thanks Rosie, most kind. He is more a
friend than anything else, we aren't
together or anything, but I might try the
getting him to use his hand or moving mine
down with his. Thanks again.
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fiona05
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Posted: 11-11-07 18:24pm
if you are having difficulty coordinating
your hand and mouth then maybe you could
just do your best with it and then finish
him off using just your hand? if it's
really well lubricated then it'll feel a
bit like a mouth?
i know what you mean, i've always found
giving head tricky. my jaw aches after
less than a minute. i dont know what i am
doing wrong really! i think it is much
easier for a guy to perform oral on a girl
because there is less to deal with
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reneeisorym
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Nov 2007 Posts: 14 Location: Jackson, MS
Posted: 11-13-07 10:44am
I'll try to explain how I do it and see if
it makes any sense.
Try this:
Make a circle with your hand -- thumb on
middle finger and curve the rest of your
fingers like your middle finger. Keeping
your hand like that, place your hand in
front of your mouth and press your hand
toward your mouth. When you go to give
oral sex, keep your hand pressed to your
mouth like that so that the "rhythm" is
easier to keep since you are just
following your "bobbing" head.
So .. grab his penis with your hand --
pinkie finger on the part where hair
grows. Place your mouth over the part
that sticks past your hand, pressing your
face against your hand. Pull up and down
as you keep suction.
Remember -- the rim around the bottom of
the head is the most sensitive part. The
part where the vein goes up his shaft is
typically more sensitive than the rest of
the shaft (prime location for your
tongue).
Ok that's about all I know to explain ..
Renee
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sillysallie1990
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Oct 2007 Posts: 308 Location: ,
Posted: 11-13-07 13:47pm
makes sense to me... lol thats what i do
cept i dont suck so much. so i dont have
to worry bout suction...
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Pease Blossom
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Joined: 02 Aug 2007 Posts: 18 Location: UK
Posted: 11-15-07 14:34pm
Thanks guys
Looks like I won't be seeing him anymore,
but I will bear all these tips in mind for
next time.
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LUMINALOVE
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jul 2007 Posts: 11 Location: , AZ
Posted: 11-16-07 08:00am
WELL WHY NOT?? THAT SUCKS YOU WERE REALLY
TRYING FOR HIM TOO I AM SORRY I WAS GOING
TO SAY THE MOTORCYCLE TRICK DOES WONDERS
FOR MY BF IF YOU GRASP HIM LIKE A
MOTORCYCLE HANDLE AND MAKE THE VROOM VROOM
MOTION WHILE MOVING YOUR HAND UP AND DOWN
I HOPE YOU CAN UNDERSTAND THIS IF NOT ILL
EXPLAIN MORE BUT THIS WORKS ON MY BF GOOD
LUCK
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Maddie34
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Posted: 11-16-07 09:14am
Please don't write in all caps!
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LUMINALOVE
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jul 2007 Posts: 11 Location: , AZ
Posted: 11-16-07 10:23am
Maddie34
wrote:
Please don't write in all
caps!
Oh I am truly sorry it bothered you do you
have any advice for this person or did you
just pop in to police me using caps ?
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Maddie34
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Posted: 11-16-07 11:03am
lol I'm not comfortable giving advice on
this topic just yet, however I found it
difficult to read yours when its written
that way. Thanks for the input though, and
I'm sorry you took my request as an order
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Pease Blossom
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Aug 2007 Posts: 18 Location: UK
Posted: 11-16-07 13:36pm
PEPSIGIRL2U
wrote:
WELL WHY NOT?? THAT SUCKS
YOU WERE REALLY TRYING FOR HIM TOO I AM
SORRY I WAS GOING TO SAY THE MOTORCYCLE
TRICK DOES WONDERS FOR MY BF IF YOU GRASP
HIM LIKE A MOTORCYCLE HANDLE AND MAKE THE
VROOM VROOM MOTION WHILE MOVING YOUR HAND
UP AND DOWN I HOPE YOU CAN UNDERSTAND THIS
IF NOT ILL EXPLAIN MORE BUT THIS WORKS ON
MY BF GOOD
LUCK
Because (to be crass) he was a f*ck buddy
who now wants to settle with someone else,
he is being a right ass, I am unimpressed,
I need someone better, thanks for the
advice, I will try that.
