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Gf Wants to Try Something New, Finger In My Rectum??? Posted: 11-08-07 11:44am
my girl says that when she used to put a
finger in her ex's rectum he got a great
joy and great orgasam. i read up on it and
the prostate does help but im afraid she
will think less of me. should i do it? why
or why not? anybody have any experience?
please help!
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PenguinsRus
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Posted: 11-08-07 12:08pm
if she wants to do it to make you feel
good, why would it make her think less of
you? if anything, she will probably think
more of you for being brave and giving
something new a shot!
doing it is really all about how you feel.
if you feel comfortable to
experimentation, give it a shot. if you
don't like it, you can always stop.
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chris323
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Posted: 11-08-07 12:16pm
thanks...so u have any experience in this
matter? has someone asked you to do that?
if u dont mind my asking?
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PenguinsRus
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Posted: 11-08-07 12:19pm
I have before. Out of my four past
"serious" relationships, I have had two
boyfriends that I have tried it with, and
two that I never tried it with. Out of
the two who I did, one liked it and one
didn't. It is really all personal
preference. If you feel too uncomfortable
to try, then don't let her force you. If
you feel up to it, experimentation makes a
sex life much more fun. It's always good
to try things at least once, just to see
if you like them or not. You can always
back out if its uncomfortable; I'm sure
she'll understand. If it makes you
uncomfortable to think about her touching
"whats up there" but are still curious
about trying it, ask her if she'll put a
condom on her finger to make things a
little more comforting.
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chris323
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Posted: 11-08-07 12:26pm
thanks once again. now another question,
do u think its fair for her to want to do
this when she hardly lets me do anal to
her?
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PenguinsRus
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Posted: 11-08-07 12:52pm
Again, I say its about preference. I
think its fair for her to want you to try,
but if you try and don't like it, I don't
think it is fair for her to keep pushing
you into doing it. Even if you are
skeptical about tryig it or really turned
off about it, it is unfair for her to
push. Pushing for anything in a
relationship isn't healthy. Her wanting
it, as long as she isn't pushing you for
it, is fair. It shouldn't be an issue of
"you can't do it cause I can't!". It
should be more of an issue of "you don't
like it, so it's okay" or "you like it,
so we'll do it more". Every person is
different. As long as overall you have a
healthy sexual relationship, specifics of
how often and who does what shouldn't
matter. Just as long as you are both
happy with how its going together.
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CMills93
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Posted: 11-08-07 17:13pm
I have done that with my husband as well.
He enjoys it. He actually has placed my
finger there. I do not think anything less
of him.
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Posted: 11-08-07 17:17pm
i would NEVER ever ever do that
but thats just me and everyone likes
different things
personally you better be careful and as
soon as she takes it out of there he
better WASH HER HANDS ASAP
you can get so many germs and diseases
from doing things like that
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Tylanas
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Posted: 11-08-07 18:32pm
Or use a condom over the finger. People
never think about that.
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PenguinsRus
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Posted: 11-08-07 19:01pm
I mentioned that in my response It is true though,
a condom protects a lot and usually makes
people feel more comfortable about it.
It is true though,
a condom protects a lot and usually makes
people feel more comfortable about it.