I think you need to take yourself to the bedroom or bathroom all by yourself and learn how YOU can make yourself orgasm! I'm so depressed when I heard of women who have never masturbated!!

1. The clitoris. Stimulate it with your fingers! Or maybe a water sprayer. Or perhaps a vibrator. Try it out! 90% of women (that most likely includes YOU) orgasm due to clitoral stimulation, which has nothing to do with penetrative sex. Yes, it's true! You can orgasm without a penis inside of you!

2. Spend the time along to figure out exactly what makes you feel good. Again, pay attention to the clitoris. Try side to side. Try making circles. You'll eventually find what feels good.

3. Don't stress at how long it takes; enjoy it! Most women take 10 or more minutes to orgasm! This is going to be a marathon, so make sure you're comfortable. This is why many women have vibrators: their hands get tired!

4. Only once you can orgasm by yourself should you have sex again. I'm not kidding. You need to discover yourself as a sexual organ before allowing something else in the picture.

5. Stimulate the clitoris DURING sex! It's okay to do this! In fact it feels really freaking good! I suggest it t every woman.

As Eiri says, try stimulating yourself during sex. If you feel awkward putting a hand down there and doing it yourself, maybe try buying a toy that helps with that (a vibrating penis ring for him, or one of those simulators that can be worn like underwear for you). The vibrating and rubbing should help you reach it faster and would be much more enjoyable for the both of you!

i have never had an orgasm during sex either... i have during oral and do masterbate. i want to orgasm during sex but havent yet... my bf seems to think that i shouldnt have to stimulate my clitoris on order to orgasm during sex so it is sortta difficult to just reach down and start rubbing, i will try though

Statistics are really low with women who can orgasm with no clitoral stimulation. I don't know the exact numbers, but most women need to be stimulated at least a little there to be able to have an orgasm.

yea i know but he doesnt....i have tried telling him... i think i am going to work on kegals... i have heard that helps and maybe i will try to ease him into the stimulating the clitorus...

Just do it. It's your body; if he doesn't care enough to let you touch yourself during sex so you can feel pleasure then he's just stupid

Kegals only supposedly help with g-spot orgasms, not clitoral ones.

oh he cares too much he hates it that i dont orgasm during sex... and he will let me i have done it before and he thought it was hot but i get the feeling that its disapointing to him that i have to touch myself... i will try the kegals though cause it feels really good when i tighten those muscles during sex i just cant do it very much lol i dont have any endurence down there ha ha

Thank you girls so much for your help.
I do masterbate so doing that during sex may help.
Thanks for the idea