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New Member...anal? Posted: 11-08-07 07:32am
my girlfriend tells me that with her ex
she would put a finger in his rectum and
that would give him pleasure. she thinks
we should try. she says sex is about
experiecing new things and pleasing one
another. i have heard that a males "g"
spot is in his rectum..fact or myth???
what should i do? help!
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Mikolas
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Posted: 11-08-07 09:21am
It is true. very true. I wouldn't know how
it actually feels like though, I twitch at
the thought of anything long going into my
buttocks. But I know some girl friends who
told me guys can get better orgasms from
that sensation. Have fun
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Tylanas
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Posted: 11-08-07 10:44am
Yes. The male g-spot is actually the
prostate gland. Stimulation of this gland
during oral or other sex can cause
intensely pleasurable orgasms.
Before you freak about sticking something
in your anus, this about this: a finger is
a heck of a lot thinner than most bowel
movements you make. Piece of cake.
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chris323
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Posted: 11-08-07 11:09am
eiri, im also afraid of feeling less of a
man by doing that. would u think less of a
male if he allowed you to do that?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 11-08-07 11:29am
Absolutely not! I'd think of him as more
of a man for being brave enough and open
enough to let me do that.
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chris323
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Posted: 11-08-07 11:34am
thank you. it did take alot of courage to
post this. but u have given me a new sense
of confidence!
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marvel
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Posted: 11-08-07 12:51pm
I'm going to be honest: I'm gay and I
don't enjoy recieving anal sex. However,
there is a bit difference between anal sex
and anal/prostate stimulation. Stimulation
feels great. Go with what you think feels
great. If it does end up feeling good for
you.. awesome. It won't make you less of a
man to let your girlfriend do pleasurable
things to you, will it?
At the very least give it a shot, so you
can see if it's for you!
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chris323
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Posted: 11-08-07 13:13pm
thanks for the honesty, but if u dont mind
me asking how does ur not liking of anal
play out in your relationship?
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Tylanas
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Posted: 11-08-07 13:20pm
Usually one male likes getting it and the
other likes giving it
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marvel
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Posted: 11-08-07 13:44pm
hahahaha. Eiri, are you a gay man trapped
in a female's body?
She's right. And if not... there are
plenty of other ways to enjoy yourselves
sexually without actually having sex.
sidenote: Society is so fixed on a 'male'
role and a 'female' role in sex. It's
ridiculous. Many people automatically
think you need a 'female' role and a
'male' role to have good sex. Not so!
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Tylanas
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Posted: 11-08-07 17:43pm
marvel
wrote:
hahahaha. Eiri, are you a
gay man trapped in a female's body?
Lol. I sometimes think I am, except that
I've been divulging in lady-like
activities this semester, like growing out
my hair and wearing makeup. That's not to
say I didn't have boyish hair for years
and was confused for a guy often. I
laughed! I still sometimes masturbate and
visualize that I'm a guy.
Quote:
She's right. And
if not... there are plenty of other ways
to enjoy yourselves sexually without
actually having sex.
sidenote: Society is so fixed on a 'male'
role and a 'female' role in sex. It's
ridiculous. Many people automatically
think you need a 'female' role and a
'male' role to have good sex. Not
so!
