Why Am I Over Sensitive to His Touches During Foreplay? Posted: 11-08-07 06:24am
I am a 32 year old female and I have been
married for almost 7 years. The past two
times that we have made love, I have
become overly sensitive to his touches
during foreplay to the extent that I feel
uncomfortable. This has never happened to
me before. Can anyone tell me why this is
all of a sudden happening to me? Any
advice would be great.
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sarah_bunny
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Posted: 11-08-07 09:42am
has anything changed in your relationship
with your husband?
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CMills93
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Posted: 11-08-07 10:38am
No. Nothing has changed in our
relationship. We are having financial
difficulties but other than that, there is
nothing.
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PenguinsRus
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Posted: 11-08-07 10:48am
Are you oversensative to them in the sense
that you mentally don't want his
touches/want to push it away, or is it
that they physically don't feel the same?
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CMills93
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Posted: 11-08-07 11:18am
I love his touches. I just push him away
as soon as the "over" sensitivity starts.
It feels as if he touches me again in
those spots, it will hurt. But it doesn't.
I have no other way to explain this. I
love him with my entire heart and I want
to make love to him but it worries me
because I feel like I push him away once
the "over" sensitivity starts up.
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sarah_bunny
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the Reason I Ask Posted: 11-08-07 11:51am
the reason i ask this is because if your
relationship has improved (you two have
gotten closer or are just more physically
attracted to each other) then it could be
something as simple as you are just
getting more turned on during foreplay.
when you are aroused, a rush of blood goes
to the vagina. which in turn makes the
clitorus sensitive and erect. the more
sensitive your clitoris the easier it is
to reach orgasm. once you have reached
that point many women feel too sensitive
to continue.
one thing you can try is when you get to
the point of over sensitivity, focus on
him (give him a hand-job or oral). that
will give you time to "desensitize" and it
will appear to your husband that you are
just being "generous".
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CMills93
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Posted: 11-08-07 17:11pm
Thank you so very much for the advice. I
think your right sarah. I am going to take
your advice.
