Well, since homosexual couples can't marry, I'm confused.

about what? there was nothing in that post about marriage? it was about sex. I think he meant wait in the sense that one should feel completely ready about going forward with sex

The title of this thread is "Premarital Sex - Same Sex Couples"

I'm gonna go with same sex civil unions, same concept, same theory. doesn't change the issue. semantics really...

maybe i want to hear from those who come from states or countries that accomodate for legalised same-sex marriages...

if you do not have anything contructive to add then just sit back and shut up!

wait...homosexual couples can marry (albeit only in certain areas around the world)

Practicing random acts of rudeness, are we?

Canada allows same sex couples to marry.

I think the choice to wait (or not) to have sex for marriage is entirely personal, and I wouldn't think sexual orientation would change that.

Massachusetts allows same sex marriage, also.

Uhh, I think you're asking a very loaded question, as a matter of fact. It touches on one of the biggest criticisms of the gay culture: that of sex, and lots of it.

I'm gay, and I personally think the rampant sex that goes on within the gay community is quite excessive. I understand the argument that sex is a way of enjoying your body (which is an argument that is classically used), but it comes at a very heavy price. The gay community has paid dearly with STIs and abuse.

In any case, I think it's best to wait. Not to wait 'til marriage, but to wait 'til you find someone who you seriously like. It doesn't have to mean you've been together for months or years, but enough to show respect for yourself. I like the mentality of "I'm good enough to wait for". Sex in the gay community has become so emotionless.

Excessive sex is bad for anyone, no matter what their sexuality may be. I agree with Marvel: Wait until you find someone you want to be in a serious relationship with. Sure, it's your choice to use sex as cash, but I honestly don't look favorable on ANYONE who is promiscuous, straight, lesbian, bi, or gay.

No, I think you are, actually. You basically said that homosexuals don't have ethics applied to their sexual behavior because they "can't" marry. You also stated it in such a way that I'm inclined to think you believe they should never be able to marry.

I'm from Canada, but regardless of what the term is, it's still a long term commitment. I agree that it's highly personal decision and I wouldn't suggest against it or for it. However, regardless of the sexuality of the couples, STI's are becoming more and more the norm and that's something to be careful about. I'm not sure if same sex couples are more prone to have them, but having lots of rampant sex is probably not a good idea in any case. I think waiting for someone you really care about and love is probably the best way to lose your virginity, just be safe about it.

Same sex couples are only "prone" to STD's because of the abuse of sex.

as long as your both consenting adults then do what you will...Go with my blessings...and have fun. You only live once, play safe and enjoy your youth, your only young once. Just don't do anything your going to regret. Be mature about it. There is nothing wrong with sex.

I see nothing wrong with it in a healthy relationship whether you are straight or gay.

Im from Canada.... I think gay marriage shoudl be allowed everywhere!!!

Who to say being straight is normal when there is no normal.

Perception is all there is as reality doesnt exist" Tom peters

I think I love you But seriously, why cant all straight people be like you? It seems straight women are much more tolerant than straight men....do you think thats true? That quote "Perception is all there is as reality doesn't exist"...thats very good...

Thanx~!

Anyways just a hint its usually religion that condemns homosexuality but it doesnt actually it cause these people cant see a word except for what it is worth, metaphors are beautiful.

Amen!