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Do you think Women lie about "Size doesn't matter"?

Women don't care as much as men believe they do
Women don't care, but it is a preference that they often lie about
Women care, and are blatantly lieing for an innocence appeal, etc

37% [ 12 ]

34% [ 11 ]

28% [ 9 ]

Total Votes : 32

Q: Women And "size Doesn't Matter" Controversy - Men

asked by: Mikolas on November 7th, 2007

Active User, very eHealthy

Hey guys, I just wanted this poll for a survey (just cuz im bored and curious), and if you wish, your opinions about this popular "debate". Men ONLY please vote on the poll, I want an accurate answer coming from mens. I will post a separate one about women and your opinions on the sexual health - woman's forum. I am not implying anything about women with these polls, I simply want to visually see the depth of difference in conflict/opinions between how men feel if woman care about their size vs if women feel they do not care despite what men feel.

So the question is guys (GUYS), you have all heard at least one point in time, whether it's your girlfriend, your wife, your lady friends, that they aren't that shallow and a male's penis size does not matter to them. What do you think, are they being truthful, are they covering up for the "innocent" appeal, or they are blatantly lieing. Naturally, there are specific cases of women that you may know 100% who do care, and those who don't, so, do not try to think of what individual ladies you know have said. Rather vote and voice your opinion as if you overheard a generic woman in general stating her beliefs on whether or not size matters.

Just be honest, nobody will know what you vote for if you don't reply to topic =)

Please feel free and voice your opinion about why/why not you think they are lieing. I want to understand people's reason

Replies(14)

marvel

replied on November 8th, 2007

Supporter

I think there are SOME women out there who care about penis size.

I think, though, that with what I hear, then number of men who suck in bed, they'd rather have a guy who knows what he's doing than have a man with a big penis.

So if guys all of a sudden got better in bed, maybe women will be left wanting more... ie bigger penises?

haha, just joking. Most women don't care.

MikeH90

replied on November 9th, 2007

Experienced User

I believe that some woman who say that they don't care usually have a partner who is large so it doesn't matter to them.

I also think that most woman will tell a guy that it doesn't matter so that they don't bruise his ego.

Fighter_in_the_Sky_

replied on November 10th, 2007

Experienced User

Hmmmm

I think for most girls penis size is like a basic requirement. A girl isn't going to love you for having a big dick, but if your dick is small (under 5.5 inches, the national average) then girls might find that unattractive.

redneck programmer

replied on January 29th, 2008

New User

I've had anumber of sexual partners that were more interested in my weenie than thy were as in me as a person. I'ma really big guy (6'6" and 275) so i guess they were wondering if everything on me is bigger than average. They wanted to find out, so who was I to say no?

Whaturmuva

replied on January 29th, 2008

Experienced User

It depends on what the woman is after. If she wants a relationship then the connection will be there before you get to the bedroom anyways so it wont really matter how big you are as long as the intimacy is there and the emotional connection.

If she is someone you met in a bar today then yea your size/performance is more important to her.

But in the end, as long as you know how to bring her pleasure I don't think the size is really a concern.

nspeed22

replied on January 30th, 2008

New User

I think the national average can be misleading...hey..some guys are showers, some are growers...

Anyway...i think all girls are different. if a girl is extra petite, she may not like a large partner.

MiseEire

replied on January 30th, 2008

Experienced User

I guess it's similar to how important men consider breast size. To me, breast size isn't hugely important. I just like well-shaped breasts that are of a reasonable size though it's not something I fixate on typically. Then there are so-called "breast men" who are particularly aroused by large breasts. As a self-confessed "ass & legs" man, I will still admit that large breasts can be arousing, but it's not an absolute pre-requisite.

So therefore I think that women's opinions on penis size are probably very similar. As long as it's nearing average size and is presentable it probably doesn't matter unless you're dealing with a real "size queen". Visually, women probably prefer larger-looking penises but in practice i.e. during intercourse, this isn't that important seeing as the average penis is long enough with room to spare in order to stimulate the main areas. If anything, girth is the key because the best penetrative zone is about four inches in or so.

Wozzie

replied on January 30th, 2008

New User

Size over Texture

I don't care if your penis is small - as long as it gets REALLY hard!!

unnamedny

replied on January 30th, 2008

Experienced User

Every answer is correct, there are different type of girls who care about different things.

Sun Worshipper

replied on February 4th, 2008

New User

It is not just about intercourse

Many of us are led to thinking only about intercourse and orgasm.
The bulge in the male trouser is what arouses women.
The process of balooning is more exciting for a women.
Variety is important.
So a flaccid and lazy penis as as much playable as a hard dick
Every woman who has seen a dick, definitely waits to see it again, or sometimes
waits to feel it again. Each day she sees the same dick, she may not register
the shape, size, position etc, and my opinion is that each day a women
see's a dick, she finds it unique and enjoyable.

Especially when she is fantasizing about dicks of different male connections,
she waits to see it grow underneth the trouser. And the simple thought of
growth ifself entices women.

I want responses on this point of view

PlacidIntricacy

replied on May 14th, 2008

Experienced User

wow...

Im surprised to see the responses... every girl i know openly admits that size does matter and it matters alot. ofourse theres the whole love connection thing but that applies to guys to. without connection its just awkward and stupid. but even my girlfriend of almost 4 years now admits she's glad mine is big cause otherwise she would never be able to get off.

I'm just saying, it matters, i never hear a girl who doesn't agree that size matters. they do also say it helps ALOT if they are good at what they do. but fact is if its less than 5 inches you minds well use your fingers, they are more flexable Razz

homerx

replied on May 15th, 2008

Supporter

If someone says sizes doesn't matter you can bet they have a little one...if size didnt matter then dildos would be 2 inches long...

Mikolas

replied on June 10th, 2008

Active User, very eHealthy

HAHA Homer, wonderful comment. I never thought about that oddly enough. Instead of asking their opinions, I should have looked into what they buy! More larger dildos then smaller ones are bought no? Thinking from a business' perspective, I would have tried to reduce the amount of material used in my product unless there was a demand for a certain amount of it being used. And I wouldn't know, but I don't imagine there is a very large industry/demand for small dildos.

Anyway, interesting thought.

It is strange oddly enough though. To my experience, most of the women that I've seen address topics like this, almost estimately 80 % state that size doesn't matter. But the girls that I met in real life that I've gotten somewhat comfortable talking with, offhandly state that size does matter. I wonder why it differs, possibly age? Anyway, that would be another irrelevant research topic. This "research" topic that I started here, takes forever for responses as it is.

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Doug.

replied on June 24th, 2008

New User

Penile Size

Is a bunch of BS, As most women and men should know that that her little Jewel, "The Female Clitoris", that if properly stroked induces her orgasms. And her clitoris is well within the reach of any males penis.

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