One possible answer is that your body has possibly has became allergic to alcohol. But I'm not sure I've never heard of that before but its possible probably.
Another possible answer is that is that you're not taking good care of yourself while drinking. Drinking can reck havoc on the body. Causing symptoms ranging from terrible vomitting, headaches, etc etc and ending in death. Its possible that while drinking alcohol your body is becoming dehydrated or is lossing too many nutrients which thusly makes you sicker.
Now for a third possible answer is that its become a conditioned response to the alcohol. I would expect this for you 2ogera being a bartender and seeing all the other people drinking and seeing how they act and all. Its possible that you may have had a bad experience in combination with a bad hangover and since then things have only gotten worse over time.
So thats my three theories I hope they might help you.