Ever ask why she's not really digging oral sex?
Things got better with my boyfriend and I when we talked things over.

I'm all about equality, I don't think its right that you would go down on her but she won't give you oral. Give her the best oral you possibly can, and then never give it to her again. Let her feel what she lost! Then explain if she ever asks why you stopped, just tell her you just don't believe its very fair at all that you would do all this for her, but she won't even try to pass her limits for you. If she still won't budge, and you really can't take it, then I guess you have to move on.

I agree with Maddie, try and talk to her to see why she doesnt like doing those things. There may be a very good reason, maybe its a pyscological issue. She could be afraid of some reason. You really just need to know why. But it isnt fair for her to laugh at you or throw it in your face. In a relationship the other should want to or at least be willing to please the other.

I couldnt give oral sex either. Something happened to me as a child that just messed me up. My boyfriend now never pressured me into doing that if I didnt feel ok about it. I finally went to therapy to overcome those fears and I learned to get over it. I enjoy oral sex now. So if its something like this you really shouldnt hold it against her. Instead work with her and try to help he through it.

Some girls, actually A LOT of girls, are timid about those things. there are a few things that could harm you in anal sex, because we are trying to put something in us when originally it was meant for things to come out of. But i will admit, it shouldn't be too much of a hassle as long as you do it carefully. Oral on the other hand, some girls are also scared that they may not be good at it and that's why they shy away from it. They say they don't like it just so you can stop asking them to do it. But also, if she doesn't like it, it's wrong to pressure her into those things. If she doesn't want to, she doesn't want to. Just reassure her that if she's never done it before then you'll make sure yo won't judge her and you'll help her out until she's able to do it without your help. But if she has done it before, then obviously she has her reasons why she doesn't like it and you should respect that.

i would have a talk with her. sit down together and be honest. if there is a problem (bad gag reflex, taste, lock jaw) then those can be fixed. if she is not very experienced then it just might be that she isnt comportable just yet.

i would talk to her first then decide together what to do.

I agree with everyone. I would talk to her first and see whats up. It is not fair to dump her without giving her a chance to explain why, but at the same time its not fair that you satisfy her and she doesn't do the same for you. Don't pressure her into anything she doesn't want to do. Maybe she doesn't like anal? Imagine if SHE broke up with YOU because you wouldn't let her stick something up your butt. It isn't always fun for all girls; if anything it feels better for males because of their anatomy/prostate. But anyways, I'd give her a chance to talk to you and explain why she doesn't like these things, and if in the end you really aren't compatible, then I would think about maybe letting her go. Relationships aren't all about sex, although it is a very important component.