I'm really young and i have an elongated
labia and what i think is a loose vagina.
Right now i'm at the age where everyone is
starting to have sex and I feel like I'm
inadequate. I'm afraid that if i'm unhappy
about this when i'm still in high school
then i'll never be ok with it. My ugly
vagina makes me feel like i am not sexy
and noone will ever love me
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PenguinsRus
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Joined: 05 Nov 2007 Posts: 1211 Location: New York, NY United States
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Posted: 11-06-07 12:34pm
You do not have an ugly vagina! Every
woman's vagina is different, but they all
preform the same basic function. Also,
having an elongated labia is not having a
"loose vagina". A loose vagina is a term
used to describe the inside of the vagina,
not the lips. It is used usually when a
woman has a lot of sex, so the inside of
her vagina is not as tight as it used to
be. You are not loose.
Guys do not worry about what a girl's
vagina looks like. Think about it; do you
worry about how his penis looks? As long
as it is functioning, that is all that
matters. Try to love your body for what
it is. Some guys are turned on and prefer
larger labia! I promise that no guy will
shun you for how you look, and if he does,
he isn't worth it.
On a side note, if you are "really young"
as you state, maybe you are not ready for
sex yet. Just because you are at an age
where everyone else is having sex, that
doesn't mean that you have to have it too.
Only have sex when you are in a loving,
committed relationship and you feel the
time is right. I promise you it will be
much more enjoyable that way. Be sure to
use a condom to stay protected from STDs
and pregnancy, or birth control if you
both get tested for STDs first.
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young Girl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
I'm really young and i have
an elongated labia and what i think is a
loose vagina. Right now i'm at the age
where everyone is starting to have sex and
I feel like I'm inadequate. I'm afraid
that if i'm unhappy about this when i'm
still in high school then i'll never be ok
with it. My ugly vagina makes me feel like
i am not sexy and noone will ever love
me
It's normal to be in high school and feel
self concious about things like that but
if a man ever gave you crap about it then
he isnt worth it. Be happy with what you
have