First Time Poster Needs Help With a Few Things

I heard you can get medication for premature ejaculation. I also think maybe you should see her more often, and have intercouse with her regularly, or with any other girl. I think that man who start their sex life late are prone to having such problems.

I though I responded to this one already, but it is not here anymore. Look under the other posts for premature ejaculation and lasting longer. There is some advice there. But, I would also ask your doctor, because it really is a serious problem.

I personally don't think you need to go see a doc just yet. Since you say you just started doing anything with girls just recently, it sounds like you're just anxious and nervous.

When she touches your penis, try not to think about what she's doing. Sometimes just thinking about the pleasure and stuff is enough to make a guy ejaculate.

Also, don't know what you guys are doing, but maybe you should try to get her to do other things than just grabbing for your penis. Try kissing more, more hugging, more touching, etc. Usually, if a guy is aroused longer, it takes him a little longer to ejaculate.

Relax. If you're with her and she's about to touch you, don't stress about whether or not you're going to do it too fast because that could make you do it.

If you have any other questions, pm me.

Well yeah, but if she and you are both getting frustrated to a point where it could put a damper on the relationship, then I would see a doctor. It is your choice, but probably well worth it. I am sure you have tried not to "think" about what is going on and it obviously has not worked.

Hey dude im in the same boat as you same age aswell but this isnt my first experience with sex but when a girl rubs my penis outside my trousers for less than a minute I cum but when I cum its like goin for a pee so dont think she knows and I pull away afterwards to save meself the embarassement more or less dont want her puttin her hand down and its soakin lol most people say see a doctor but I dont want some man touchin my bits Or could be worse could be a woman doctor and ill get a hardon lol im still looking for answers if you find any let me know...

I think going to the doctor whether male or female will be less embarassing then not being able to please your woman. Also, most likely no one is going to touch you.

Well basically, it is all down to nerves, and u r not that late at dong sexual things so dont think its bad, I respect u completly.
My boyfreind only just had sex with me and he is 24 and it was his first time, so firstly dont worry about that.
Secondly don't push yourself into having sex with her, take it slowly, u need to feel comfortable around her on a emotional level, and the only way to ensure that is time.
If she is the right girl for you then she wil wait, have u told her u r a virgin? Because if u keep that from her it will make things 10 times worse.
She wil understand if she is the right girl for u.
I have heard of a technique which may help you, so maybe try this too:
u basically have to mastabate in the shower or bath (its easiest apparantly) but dont let ypurself cum even if u want to, when u r about to put a wet flanel over the head of your penis, it is supposed to increase stamina, but also it is supposed to let you learn when u know u r about to cum, and give u mental strength to hold it back.
Just concentrate on foreplay to get used to each others bodies, dont rush into having intercourse, I am sure u really want it but take your time.
And no a caring girl wouldnt find it disgusting if it happened to bf I would support him and look after him.
Maybe tell her you want to take thigs slowly coz u respect her
trust me most girls wil dig this even if she is horny for u
hope I helped
xx