I still can't comprehend/appreciate how lucky I am. I have had Strabismus all my life until 5 months ago, I have cured it.
I too am 23, Intermittent Strabismus in the left eye since the age of 4 (not born with it). Eye turned in for various reasons, strain, bright light, tiredness etc.
Went to doctors as a kid, given glasses but being a little naughty bollocks, I never wore em.
As a child people noticed it, I got plenty of stick about it, as I got older i could tell when the eye turned, and when it did I would just go home and sleep, If I nodded off properly they would reset. No matter where I was, or when, if they turned I was off. Had uni, jobs, and everything else dramatically effected by this.
The 'leg it' tactic meant that as I went to uni etc, nobody actually knew I had Strabismus, I hid it so well.
Finished Uni and had to find a job. I went slightly mental here, something had to give.
went back to the doc/ optician to see what they could do. I couldn't continue the way I was, I was so messed up.
Anyway, sat through all the usual doc BS, but had done my research, I wanted Vision therapy or something similar. I was fobbed off........... again.
The difference this time was that when I asked for Contacts instead off the Glasses they suggested, they said it could be done but would be complicated. They had to do loads more tests to factor in the strabismus.
The thing that got me was that my eyes were fine at all those appointments, they did there tests but my eyes weren't crossed then..............
So i said feck them, they dont care enough about it, it's a cosmetic issue to them.
I went independantly to a high st optician and asked for contact lenses, just a normal guy, no crossed eye.
I thought maybe they'd pick up on it with their tests and it would feck things up but i was wrong.
Things went as normal as possible and I got the lenses perscribed.
My eyes no longer cross!
There have been a handful of ocasions when they have cossed whilst wearing the lenses, once in a blue moon, under very harsh circumstanses.
Where as before it was a 60/40 split between normal and crossed eyes, it's now probably 98% normal.
I'm saying this to you because it sounded like you have intermittent strabismus (not always crossed). If they are constantly crossed then I apologize, I don't know if this information will help you.
I wasn't born with this condition, and I for the most part could live a normal life. I never gave up hope that I could get rid of this condition.
I hope this can help.
I can't fully process the apparent ease at which a problem I have battled with all my life has been solved, it staggers me.