I cant feel very much in my vagina unless the man is deep in me and really going hard. My husband told me that he's never been with a women that takes it as hard as I do cause it hurts them. Why could this be and what can I do to get some feeling?
Well first of all, you don't have very many nerve endings in your vagina except in the first few inches, so it's normal that you don't have much feeling. How much oral/manual stimulation do you do? Because I'm thinking it could be that when he goes really deep, the base of his penis/pubic bone might be rubbing on your clit, which is what you are feeling. At least, that's how it works for me.
Remember, most women orgasm from clitoral stimulation, not vaginal.
Hmm.. Since you probably can't orgasm from vaginal penetration, (based on statistics) you need to work in some other kinds of stimulation to be satisfied!! Get him to perform manual and oral stimulation on your clit.
Have you ever tried masturbating?? It's definitely good for your sex life. If you spend time figuring out what feels good for you, you can share that with him. And it probably has a lot more to do with stimulation to your clitoris than deep vaginal penetration.
try letting him rub your clit until you have an orgasm then after that hurry up and stick it inside you and have him to penatrate. It'll feel sooo good! My fiance does it all the time and it's the best feeling ever!
Im having that problem but, Ive tried masturbation...It dosnt feel good at all. He arouses me To the point of being crazy but any time he touches my clit or anything it just dosnt feel good. It feels uncomfortable...Even oral isnt enjoyable.
after you orgasm the first time it makes your G-Spot quite sensitive and it protrudes more. Also as said above there are very few nerve endings but u have a fair few in your G-Spot, find that and you should have a lil bit of a party in your pants
me and my wife have sex but she also had same problem even worse, she never allow me to finger her or give her oral she also have pain and want me to finish everything fast, she always says that she will never get orgasm that really hurts, what should i do, especially with her pain while penetrating