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scothpride

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Posted: 11-03-07 21:49pm

My husband likes anal sex and so I wanted to try it to see if I could get to like it also. He doesnt go in fast and waits a minute or two before he gets going and when he does get going he takes it easy. But every time we try it makes me feel like I have to go potty (# 2). Is this normal or is anal sex just not for me? I would love to have any kind of advise or new tips. I want to make my man happy but I want to be happy with him. Thank you.
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young Girl

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Posted: 11-03-07 21:50pm

its normal

thats how it feels hun
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scothpride

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Posted: 11-03-07 21:59pm

But I thought it was supposed to feel good? I did it to my husband for the first time and he said it didnt feel like that to him he said it just felt good. If we keep tryin will the #2 feeling go away and just feel good?
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young Girl

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Posted: 11-03-07 22:01pm

it doesnt feel good to everyone
some people HATE it and some love it
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The Mrs

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Posted: 11-03-07 22:04pm

The feeling doesn't disappear. I think it's great that you're trying new things for your husband, but don't feel pressured to like something! If you don't like it, you just don't. And it's okay. I'm sure your husband can understand that.

A good friend of mine met a guy working on an oil rig last summer that claimed every woman loved anal sex, but they just didn't all know it yet. I can tell you from experience that this statement is just not true! Very
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scothpride

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Posted: 11-03-07 22:08pm

Thank you. He does what I like and so I try and do what he likes but I guess this is just one thng I cant do. He understands and never pushes it on me I just thought I would try.
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The Mrs

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Posted: 11-03-07 22:16pm

That's good. I think my husband may like it too, but it's just one of those things.
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tiamccoy819

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Posted: 11-04-07 14:21pm

Thats how I felt when me and my boyfriend tried it...He says that it feels really good to him...but im always trying to shy away from it.

I dont like having to go through all the pain and discomfort not knowing if it will ever feel good to me
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peter peters

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Scothpride
Posted: 11-05-07 02:37am

From one of the guys who have tried it:- Some women are identical to you. Want to do it but no great pleasure. That's ok. It's for you to decide if the pleasure you give your husband is enough reward. Other ladies are full on and get very sexually excited with Anal. ( I don't know the mechanism of this I just know it happens) That's ok.also.
My current ladyfriend want's to try, and we have devoted some time and effort to this, but unfortunatly for us both I am too large for her. That's ok.too. We are very comfortable with other ways besides Anal.
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mr tibbs

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Posted: 11-05-07 03:52am

The feeling of wanting to have a dump when your husband's penis is up your arse is the natural reaction to your rectum and sphincter being stimulated. As far as they are concerned they are getting the message...'Warning!...Arse full of something, let's go and have that dump, like RIGHT NOW!!'.

The nerves there are not sufficiently smart enough to differentiate between a turd or a 6'' piece of penis.
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Rosie H

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Posted: 11-05-07 10:08am

Try going #2 before you engage in anal sex. But it is normal to feel that. I dont have that feeling.
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Georgia59

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Posted: 11-05-07 10:26am

It feels good for guys because it stimulates their prostate. But although some women enjoy it, there is really no anatomical reason.
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mr tibbs

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Posted: 11-05-07 14:47pm

Georgia59 wrote:
It feels good for guys because it stimulates their prostate. But although some women enjoy it, there is really no anatomical reason.


I don't have any positive feelings when my prostate is stimulated, what I do feel is an unpleasant, urgent, desire to pee.
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Georgia59

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Posted: 11-05-07 17:58pm

Well, ok some guys lol. Thanks for sharing. Smile
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amyamy

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Re: Anal Sex
Posted: 11-10-07 20:02pm

i have the same problem..every time i try the same feeling..i think that when he comes out, sth else will come out to and i am so stressed...i did it 2 -3 times..i like the idea, but this feeling is awfull..but never nothing comes out..by the way..i have this feeling even if i have been to the toilet before..
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Tylanas

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Posted: 11-11-07 02:26am

Again, that sensation is normal. You just have to get over it or get used to it...
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