scothpride
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Anal Sex
Posted: 11-03-07 21:49pm
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My husband likes anal sex and so I wanted
to try it to see if I could get to like it
also. He doesnt go in fast and waits a
minute or two before he gets going and
when he does get going he takes it easy.
But every time we try it makes me feel
like I have to go potty (# 2). Is this
normal or is anal sex just not for me? I
would love to have any kind of advise or
new tips. I want to make my man happy but
I want to be happy with him. Thank you.
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-03-07 21:50pm
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its normal
thats how it feels hun
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scothpride
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Posted: 11-03-07 21:59pm
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But I thought it was supposed to feel
good? I did it to my husband for the first
time and he said it didnt feel like that
to him he said it just felt good. If we
keep tryin will the #2 feeling go away and
just feel good?
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-03-07 22:01pm
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it doesnt feel good to everyone
some people HATE it and some love it
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The Mrs
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Posted: 11-03-07 22:04pm
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The feeling doesn't disappear. I think
it's great that you're trying new things
for your husband, but don't feel pressured
to like something! If you don't like it,
you just don't. And it's okay. I'm sure
your husband can understand that.
A good friend of mine met a guy working on
an oil rig last summer that claimed every
woman loved anal sex, but they just didn't
all know it yet. I can tell you from
experience that this statement is just not
true! 
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scothpride
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Posted: 11-03-07 22:08pm
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Thank you. He does what I like and so I
try and do what he likes but I guess this
is just one thng I cant do. He understands
and never pushes it on me I just thought I
would try.
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The Mrs
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Posted: 11-03-07 22:16pm
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That's good. I think my husband may like
it too, but it's just one of those things.
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tiamccoy819
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Posted: 11-04-07 14:21pm
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Thats how I felt when me and my boyfriend
tried it...He says that it feels really
good to him...but im always trying to shy
away from it.
I dont like having to go through all the
pain and discomfort not knowing if it will
ever feel good to me
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peter peters
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Scothpride
Posted: 11-05-07 02:37am
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From one of the guys who have tried it:-
Some women are identical to you. Want to
do it but no great pleasure. That's ok.
It's for you to decide if the pleasure you
give your husband is enough reward. Other
ladies are full on and get very sexually
excited with Anal. ( I don't know the
mechanism of this I just know it happens)
That's ok.also.
My current ladyfriend want's to try, and
we have devoted some time and effort to
this, but unfortunatly for us both I am
too large for her. That's ok.too. We are
very comfortable with other ways besides
Anal.
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mr tibbs
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Posted: 11-05-07 03:52am
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The feeling of wanting to have a dump when
your husband's penis is up your arse is
the natural reaction to your rectum and
sphincter being stimulated. As far as they
are concerned they are getting the
message...'Warning!...Arse full of
something, let's go and have that dump,
like RIGHT NOW!!'.
The nerves there are not sufficiently
smart enough to differentiate between a
turd or a 6'' piece of penis.
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Rosie H
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Posted: 11-05-07 10:08am
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Try going #2 before you engage in anal
sex. But it is normal to feel that. I
dont have that feeling.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 11-05-07 10:26am
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It feels good for guys because it
stimulates their prostate. But although
some women enjoy it, there is really no
anatomical reason.
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mr tibbs
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Posted: 11-05-07 14:47pm
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| Georgia59
wrote: | | It feels good for guys
because it stimulates their prostate. But
although some women enjoy it, there is
really no anatomical
reason. |
I don't have any positive feelings when my
prostate is stimulated, what I do feel is
an unpleasant, urgent, desire to pee.
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Georgia59
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Posted: 11-05-07 17:58pm
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Well, ok some guys lol. Thanks for
sharing. 
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amyamy
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Re: Anal Sex
Posted: 11-10-07 20:02pm
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i have the same problem..every time i try
the same feeling..i think that when he
comes out, sth else will come out to and i
am so stressed...i did it 2 -3 times..i
like the idea, but this feeling is
awfull..but never nothing comes out..by
the way..i have this feeling even if i
have been to the toilet before..
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Tylanas
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Posted: 11-11-07 02:26am
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Again, that sensation is normal. You just
have to get over it or get used to it...
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