My husband likes anal sex and so I wanted to try it to see if I could get to like it also. He doesnt go in fast and waits a minute or two before he gets going and when he does get going he takes it easy. But every time we try it makes me feel like I have to go potty (# 2). Is this normal or is anal sex just not for me? I would love to have any kind of advise or new tips. I want to make my man happy but I want to be happy with him. Thank you.
But I thought it was supposed to feel good? I did it to my husband for the first time and he said it didnt feel like that to him he said it just felt good. If we keep tryin will the #2 feeling go away and just feel good?
The feeling doesn't disappear. I think it's great that you're trying new things for your husband, but don't feel pressured to like something! If you don't like it, you just don't. And it's okay. I'm sure your husband can understand that.
A good friend of mine met a guy working on an oil rig last summer that claimed every woman loved anal sex, but they just didn't all know it yet. I can tell you from experience that this statement is just not true!
From one of the guys who have tried it:- Some women are identical to you. Want to do it but no great pleasure. That's ok. It's for you to decide if the pleasure you give your husband is enough reward. Other ladies are full on and get very sexually excited with Anal. ( I don't know the mechanism of this I just know it happens) That's ok.also.
My current ladyfriend want's to try, and we have devoted some time and effort to this, but unfortunatly for us both I am too large for her. That's ok.too. We are very comfortable with other ways besides Anal.
The feeling of wanting to have a dump when your husband's penis is up your arse is the natural reaction to your rectum and sphincter being stimulated. As far as they are concerned they are getting the message...'Warning!...Arse full of something, let's go and have that dump, like RIGHT NOW!!'.
The nerves there are not sufficiently smart enough to differentiate between a turd or a 6'' piece of penis.
i have the same problem..every time i try the same feeling..i think that when he comes out, sth else will come out to and i am so stressed...i did it 2 -3 times..i like the idea, but this feeling is awfull..but never nothing comes out..by the way..i have this feeling even if i have been to the toilet before..
Well, I find that when that feeling comes -- and it comes stronger for some women than others -- you just cant clench off. I mean, of course that is the normal reaction. It is what we were taught all our lives. But if you have a partner you love and trust, if you push out just a bit, rather than clenching off, the entire act goes smoother. Why? When you clench, the hold is this shape -- * -- hard to penetrate anyway. So you clench more, he pushes more, it is like you are fighting against each other. When you push, even slightly, the shape becomes an O. And what is easier to penetrate -- * or O? Yes, it takes some time and practice to be at ease with this. But once you can control that 'gotta poop' feeling and allow him deep thrusts, that feeling changes to one that can help you orgasm. Anal is a mix of voluntary and involuntary movement inside. Both can help you orgasm if you relax, breathe, push and have a partner you can communicate with. It is also good to practice on your own to master this feeling. Once you do, you actually look forward to it, rather than dread it. Good luck!