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Sandbox Party
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So Frustrated I Want to Cry :-(
Posted: 11-02-07 14:11pm
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Ok... i dont know what Jacobs problem has
been lately, but the last 2 days hes been
SO FRUSTRATING.
I cant even make a motion that im leaving
a room (I.e., adjusting myself on the
couch or i dunno, saying the word LEAVE or
*i'll be right back*) without him
seriously going MENTAL. i mean, the
*huh-huh-huh-waahhh-f-f-f* gasping for air
hyperventilating crying.. SCREAMING like
the scariest person in the universe is
trying to abduct him.. or like hes so
scared he could faint.
I had to hold my pee for THREE HOURS
becuase he wouldnt let me leave the room.
He'd go nuts if i got up from where i was
sitting to just walk across the room to
get something. *MOMMY!!MOMMY!! SIT DOWN!!
NOO!!!!* Its like he thinks im going to
leave him or something and not come back.
I never ever dealt with this from him
before.
This morning when I had just woke up, I
had to pee.. Jacob again went crazy.. (he
YET AGAIN got up at 4 am and came in and
got into our bed) so i REALLY had to go,
so i put the baby gate up (because our
basement stairs dont have a door and i
didnt want him falling down them) told him
i'd be RIGHT BACK to chill out, and i ran
to the bathroom.. I come out of the
bathroom, and lo and behold, his ass had
CLIMBED over the babygate and was making
his way down the hall. His sister was all
chillaxin watching Blues Clues-- no matta
no matta with her.
I just dont know whats going on with him..
When he goes to bed at night, he has has
hasss to be right up against me laying
down with him or else its WW3. if i move
an inch i get MOMMY! MOMMY! MOMMY!! COME
BACK! so i usually lay there uncomfortable
as can be just to get him to sleep.
Last night it took me TWO HOURS to get him
to sleep. TWO HOURS. He fought me tooth
and nail the ENTIRE time. Kept his sister
up, when she would doze off, he's start
screaming and she'd wake up. Did this til
almost 1 am.
Yesterday i couldnt even make lunch for
the kids without him going crazy. (and i
mean CRAZY) flailing himself around,
screaming.. So i went hungry til Rob came
home.. i couldnt PEE, let alone make
myself anything to eat.
Then i put them down for naps.. ANOTHER
FIGHT. Then they only slept for like, a
half hour. After i got done cleaning up
the living room and the lunch stuff, they
had woke up.
I just.. *sigh* wish i knew what his deal
was.
Im glad they finally went to sleep just
now.. Im not even going to BOTHER with
cleaning right now.. i just cant. Im gunna
grab a bite to eat real quick then just
sit on my ass and do NOTHING til they wake
up. God knows how long they'll be asleep.
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blackcat34
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2007 Posts: 448 Location: Brownsville, Texas U.S. of A.
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Posted: 11-02-07 14:29pm
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did this start before or after Halloween
night?
Edit: dont cry 
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Amber*Marie
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Joined: 13 Feb 2007 Posts: 1430
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Posted: 11-02-07 14:36pm
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Maybe he had a nightmare about you getting
hurt or leaving?? Ask him some questions.
See if he can tel you something.
I know me little neice just done this with
my sister not too long ago. Come to find
out she had a dream about a monster taking
her mommy!!! (they let the kids watch
scary movies!)
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Sandbox Party
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jul 2006 Posts: 7276
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Posted: 11-02-07 14:43pm
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Erick... no, it started yesterday
morning..
Amber.. we dont let the kids watch scary
movies.. ever. They get Disney Channel and
Nickelodeon thats all. Sometimes cartoon
network. I HATE scary movies so they dont
get played here.
I dont know whats up.. im sitting here in
tears because i feel like im not doing my
job right.. i should know whats wrong with
him.. ive asked him over and over what was
wrong, he just looks at me like hes scared
im gunna get up and leave again.
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Becky
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Joined: 01 Jan 2006 Posts: 6228 Location: London, England
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Posted: 11-02-07 14:52pm
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sandra I have the same thing with logan-
EVERY DAY. What you are saying describes
him to a tee except he just screams
'mama!!!!' Luckily he will go to bed just
fine without me otherwise i don;t know how
i'd cope.
i usually have him on my knee 24/7- most
of the time when i'm on here he's sat on
me. if i get up to go anywhere he has to
come with me.
it's seperation anxiety. cause jacobs came
on all of a sudden i think it is just a
phase and will wear off. logan has been
like that for as long as can remember. i
never mention it to you girls cause it's
the norm to me now.
but yeah... it wears you down 
Last edited by Becky on 11-02-07 14:53pm; edited 1 time in total
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blackcat34
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2007 Posts: 448 Location: Brownsville, Texas U.S. of A.
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Posted: 11-02-07 14:52pm
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The reason I asked, was because of what
happened Halloween night... he may just
need some time to get over that... he is
probably worried about you.
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Sandbox Party
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jul 2006 Posts: 7276
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Posted: 11-02-07 14:54pm
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| blackcat34
wrote: | | The reason I asked, was
because of what happened Halloween
night... he may just need some time to get
over that... he is probably worried about
you. |
i'll get on AIM.
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blackcat34
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2007 Posts: 448 Location: Brownsville, Texas U.S. of A.
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Posted: 11-02-07 15:16pm
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| Sandy_Pants
wrote: | | blackcat34
wrote: | | The reason I asked, was
because of what happened Halloween
night... he may just need some time to get
over that... he is probably worried about
you. |
i'll get on
AIM. |
Just read that... logging on myself..
power went out earlier it shut my router
down and AIM turned off...
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Bridget
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Posted: 11-02-07 15:24pm
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| blackcat34
wrote: | | The reason I asked, was
because of what happened Halloween
night... he may just need some time to get
over that... he is probably worried about
you. |
what happened?!
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Sandbox Party
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Joined: 25 Jul 2006 Posts: 7276
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Posted: 11-02-07 20:51pm
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yeah hes being a *little* better tonight..
but then it went bad again.. rob went in
the house for a minute and left the kids
and I outside on the porch, and OMG he
went nuts.
i just... oy vey.
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Mommy35
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Sep 2006 Posts: 3165 Location: Vacationland, USA,
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Posted: 11-02-07 20:59pm
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Yeah, he's going through a stage. Soon
enough he'll go through one where he won't
care if your in the room or down the
street. Kids are funny.
I'm sure moving into a new area has got to
be scary for a little kid. Poor baby
Black cat's avatar makes me motion sick.
LOL
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Sandbox Party
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jul 2006 Posts: 7276
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Posted: 11-02-07 21:01pm
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lol i'll let him know.
thanks Cindy. ^_^
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number game
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jun 2007 Posts: 1212 Location: Charlotte, NC,
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Posted: 11-02-07 21:25pm
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I don't know because I don't have any kids
yet, but I hope things get better for the
both of you soon.
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Sandbox Party
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jul 2006 Posts: 7276
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Posted: 11-02-07 21:26pm
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Thanks Ray.. me toooooo ^_^ lol
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blackcat34
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2007 Posts: 448 Location: Brownsville, Texas U.S. of A.
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Posted: 11-03-07 01:32am
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| Mommy35
wrote: | Yeah, he's going through a
stage. Soon enough he'll go through one
where he won't care if your in the room or
down the street. Kids are funny.
I'm sure moving into a new area has got to
be scary for a little kid. Poor baby
Black cat's avatar makes me motion sick.
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sorry.... it's my gentlemanized
avatar... done on another forum...
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blackcat34
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2007 Posts: 448 Location: Brownsville, Texas U.S. of A.
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Posted: 11-03-07 01:36am
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lol... she just told me... right when I
told her that she didnt need to tell
me...cuz I just read it here....
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Sandbox Party
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jul 2006 Posts: 7276
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Posted: 11-03-07 01:38am
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| blackcat34
wrote: | | lol... she just told me...
right when I told her that she didnt need
to tell me...cuz I just read it
here.... |

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blackcat34
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2007 Posts: 448 Location: Brownsville, Texas U.S. of A.
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Posted: 11-03-07 01:39am
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| Sandy_Pants
wrote: | | blackcat34
wrote: | | lol... she just told me...
right when I told her that she didnt need
to tell me...cuz I just read it
here.... |
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tee hee... I'm drunk... so if I
bable...I ammm really sorry....
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Sandbox Party
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jul 2006 Posts: 7276
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Posted: 11-03-07 01:40am
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| blackcat34
wrote: | | Sandy_Pants
wrote: | | blackcat34
wrote: | | lol... she just told me...
right when I told her that she didnt need
to tell me...cuz I just read it
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tee hee... I'm drunk... so if I
bable...I ammm really
sorry.... |
yeah if he babbles.. blame it on Jim Beam
and his buddies. 
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blackcat34
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2007 Posts: 448 Location: Brownsville, Texas U.S. of A.
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Posted: 11-03-07 01:43am
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oh you read my thread...lol...
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