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very-confused
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Im Also Inlove With My Cousin.
Posted: 11-02-07 12:53pm
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hey
i just need some advice on what to do.
ever since i was young i`ve had on huge
crush on my cousin(my mothers`cousins`
son) his dad is my cousin too,me and my
mom.so anyway its not like i wanna marry
him,or have his baby or nothing stupid
like that.i just love to bother him,go
places with him,just hang with him.he has
two little brothers and one little
sister(they are my cousins too).me and
sister use to play together all the
time,and i told her that i liked her
brother when we were little.but she didnt
think much of it ,because she liked our
other cousin.and she use to think that i
was just kidding ,because he told her that
i was his favorite cousin.sometimes she
would get jealous cause i wanted to play
with him more than her.i was like 6 or 7
then now im 16 yrs.old and i still think
that he is the hottest thing on the
planet.like we dont hang out as much any
more he got his lyf and i got mine.but we
see each other on family days.when i see
him,ill give him a hug.ever since i was
little i have did nothing but want to be
around him now it`s 8-9 yrs. later and
nothing has change...
im i crazy or what???? help me (ps i still
have a major crush on him)
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-02-07 12:54pm
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ok so youre a joke poster right? because
now your posts dont add up at all
gotcha
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very-confused
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Posted: 11-02-07 13:04pm
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no dont get me wrong all my other post are
true,its just that this has been something
that has been in the back of my mind for a
long time but never really brought it
out,i just thought that i`d finally seek
some advice on what to do.i have a
boyfriend and all the other stuff i said
is true to.
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-02-07 13:06pm
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then stay away from your cousin
thats gross
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Posted: 11-02-07 13:10pm
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Yeah please stay away from him. I don't
see how you can be attracted to your
cousin! Werid...crushing on your cousin!
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very-confused
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Posted: 11-02-07 13:11pm
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you are say that`s gross. but look at it
like this he is just a regular attractive
male who jus happens to be in my family.i
just think that hes cute thats all i dont
wanna marry him.you are sayin thats gross
like i said i wanted to have sex with him
or something.i just think that he`s cute.
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-02-07 13:12pm
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ahh well
family members are family members
there are lots of cute boys for you out
there who arent your cousin
your post says your IN LOVE WITH him
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very-confused
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Posted: 11-02-07 13:15pm
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i feel like im in love with,but the reason
i said inlove with him is because i think
he`s really really cute.if i think that
he`s cute doesnt that mean im inlove with
him??
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Maddie34
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Posted: 11-02-07 14:03pm
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Uh no. I see plenty of cute guys, some I
even have a hard time forming a sentence
around. 
But I LOVE my boyfriend. They are very
different.
Just because you think a guy is attractive
does not mean you love them.
As you said, your cousin has his life, and
you have yours. Romantically, you should
do what it takes to keep them apart.
You're just going to have to settle for
the second hottest guy on the planet.
All assuming this wasn't a joke post of
course?
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very-confused
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Posted: 11-02-07 14:08pm
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no it wasnt,but i guess im not really
inlove with him if you said just because
you think so one is hot doesnt mean your
inlove with them
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Posted: 11-02-07 14:14pm
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Well it sounds like you already love your
boyfriend who shows you no respect. It's
better to give the whole story in one post
so people don't have to dig around and try
and piece together the truth. Not that
you're lying but sometimes omitting things
makes it seem that way you know?
My advice for both posts: Find a new guy
to devote you time, effort, and love to.
Because both these guys are either off
limits or not worth it.
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Posted: 11-02-07 14:16pm
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My advise is not to have a guy at all.
Girls always think guys are the key. They
aren't. There is so much more to life than
'devoting' yourself to a guy! So much
more.
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Maddie34
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Posted: 11-02-07 14:32pm
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Whoops.
That is much better advice than what I
wrote.
It's weird, that used to be my motto to my
friends and not once have I mentioned that
to anyone on here yet.
Having a boyfriend has certainly changed
my perspectives on things.. and here I
thought I was growing up!
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Ingi
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Posted: 11-02-07 14:33pm
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| Maddie34
wrote: | Whoops.
That is much better advice than what I
wrote.
It's weird, that used to be my motto to my
friends and not once have I mentioned that
to anyone on here yet.
Having a boyfriend has certainly changed
my perspectives on things.. and here I
thought I was growing up! |
Having a great relationship DOES change
your perspective 
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Maddie34
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Posted: 11-02-07 15:23pm
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Hehe It took me awhile to decide if I
liked the change. Its really not how I'm
used to thinking... Good lord I just told
a 16 year old girl, whose name fits her
well by the way, to go out and look for
boyfriend! I'm loosing my mind...
But you're right. I think I'm just
startled the change happened fast and I
didn't even realize it until now. And I
really wasn’t planning on having any
revelations in a post about er… cousin
love. haha
For an airhead, Ingi you give excellent
advice
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Posted: 11-02-07 16:00pm
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| Ingi
wrote: | | My advise is not to have a
guy at all. Girls always think guys are
the key. They aren't. There is so much
more to life than 'devoting' yourself to a
guy! So much
more. |
GASP Ingi, I'm not your friend anymore.
You're an airhead as of now. Guys are the
key, there is nothing more to life then
devoting to a man (except if you are a
man). The existence of women is merely and
wholly for the man's whim.
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Hahahahahaahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa, I
wanted to just leave it at that and see
how people would react, but I chickened
out because women are scary folk so I had
to post down here. Just teasing,
everybody! Lets not kill the 19 year old,
he has much to do in his life.
Well maddie and Ingi, I agree, people
shouldn't stress so much about getting a
guy/girl and all, particularly at that
age. But considering her infatuations with
her boyfriend and her cousin, to the
extent where she desires to conceive a
child at the age of 16 (am i even talking
about the right person anymore??). I doubt
"lets cut off from guys completely and go
for the single life for the time being" is
in anywhere in her mind.
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Posted: 11-02-07 16:46pm
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| Mikolas
wrote: | | am i even talking about the
right person
anymore?? |
Who knows, I keep getting everyone's
stories messed up too. Thats why I told
her to just say everything in one post.
It'd be SOO much easier.
And no being single is clearly not on her
mind. It never seems to be on very many
teenagers mind. My friends were really
freaky about it, like a boyfriend was a
requirement. I thought it was a little
goofy, which is yet another reason I was
alttile annoyed I seem to have adopted the
way of thinking...
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-02-07 21:13pm
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very confused
if you think just because hes cute
then that means you love him.....
then you dont know what the heck love is
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very-confused
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Posted: 12-03-07 13:33pm
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oh i know what love is little missy.....
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