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stay away from your cousin yo

the freaking end?!

Na I'm just teasing =) agree with you in the "if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all". I remember that from Bambi. Your story with your ex, as well, is something I hear all the time, so you were correct in what to do, and this confused one should do the same.

But yes, we MUST pick and analyze to the very word.

It's ok, I didn't realize what the fuss was all about because I didn't realize her other multifaceted posts. My opinion kind of flipped over when I found out about the cousin on the side thing, it was oh so random.

Hey, don't start on my Christianity.

I'm sorry, but I get frustrated when people don't read all of the post before replying. I had said that you may be giving her advice, but not everyone is.

haha

I found this funny

I know exactly what you said. I read it. And you said it like, 'hello'.

*sighs*

I wasn't talking about your very last post....


you know what? Just forget it, ok?

See. Once we start learning the whole story our opinions can change.

I didn't start on your Christianity? Gah you guys type so often like you are ready to tear each other up that I can't keep up. Let's love alreadyyyyy. And get back to the topic at hand, we've already given our advice, there is no need for us to continue any further, I don't think this confused lady here made the topic for a battle royale stage.

ME. She was talking about ME.

The OP is already gone. Probably moved to a different class or has gone home.

well i thank all of for trying to help me,i really do especially you godzgrl.

Coming from a guy's perspective, he doesn't care or respect your relationship anymore. All he wants to do is pursue other girls. With him asking for family members numbers and say horrible comments like that, he ain't worth it. You may feel that your in love, but your still very young and still got alot to experience, and there will be other loving relationships that will be a million times better then your current one. It may hurt at first cuz you feel your in love, but then you will find another guy that will truly care and love you. You don't need a guy that is two faced and is ashamed of you..... be strong on this one.

He really isn't worth it hun. Really. Get yourself out of there right now, don't hang around hoping he will change. He most likely won't. You shouldnt have to put up with this from someone who is supposed to love you. You've said it yourself - he clearly has no respect for you or your feelings, going by the fact that he is pressurising you for sex, and respect is one of the most important things in a relationship beside love. Lying and threatening you is also unnacceptable.

If he truly loved you, there is no way in hell he would be treating you like this.
I know you say you love him, but trust me, I know at the moment it feels like he is the only person you will ever want, I've had that myself recently, but you will get over that. It will take a while but you will find your guy hun, this guy isn't him!
Get out there, give yourself some time, and then find a guy who is really worth it, who loves you and shows you utmost respect. Ultimately you choose whether you leave him or stay with him, but I think in the long run you will regret it more if you stay with him, even if it feels like what you want to do at the moment.
Trust me hun you will be much better without him, and his "I'm sorry" BS. He doesnt deserve you.

I'm not saying that your young when I was 16 I may has well been 22, at least thats how emotionally mature I felt. Now, i'm 22 and I look back at 16 and think, god, what was I thinking?!?

You need to have respect for yourself. This guy seems like an jerk that needs to be kicked to the curb. It seems like he's pushing your buttons for kicks to see how long it can go on before you snap. This shows that he has absolutely no respect for you. You need to leave him alone, whether you want to hear that or not.

Believe me, I know how hard it is. When I was 16 I (thought) I was in LOVE with someone at my high school. Oh man, I had it bad for him. We dated for awhile, and he was an a-hole..and I didn't even care. He was very arrogant, narcissistic, and sometimes just plain mean. And I didn't even care because I was a 16/17 yr old in love. Looking back on that now, I laugh, because I see that it was just puppy-love. I shouldn't have wasted my time. And you shouldn't either. I don't waste my time with a-holes like that anymore.

Your only 16 and you should NOT continue to stay with someone who treats you like this. You need to break it off and be happy that the butthead has been kicked to the curb. And if he tries to get you back, DON'T GIVE IN! Let him know that your a strong woman who doesn't take that bull. No matter how long it takes, it may be a month, it may be a couple of years, but someone else WILL come along.

He sounds like a total jerk. You deserve to be respected. Lose him!

Whoa Whoa Whoa, what's with all this negativity people... "Airhead"?
C'mon, be cool everybody.

very-confused, first real love for you, isn't it? (easy to analyse for you being so young and that you think you should stay with a guy who doesn't even respect you)

The answer is simple but it's hard...just leave him, believe, I've had kinda the same experience with another and in the end, it's just a waste of time... LEAVE HIM.

You'll suffer, heart broken, crying, etc... but in the end, it was the right choice to do. Why? just imagine your best friend having the same experience as you...what would you say to her? I think you'll say to leave him.

There're plenty more fish in the see dudette...don't you worry about that, you'll find that real special someone one day, just...needs patience and time.

Peace.

i have couple for nearly 6 years now , lately my boyfren dont call me , text me and even spend time and his excused is working !!

when i checked his phone i got to know his having another affair without my knowledge hanging around with this gal

i have meet up this gal and she is deeply in luv with him

wht should i do ????