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Little Miss Oops
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Posted: 11-02-07 12:03pm
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so i'm pretty sure im not pregnant for all
you ppl that did give me advice thank you
alot.. like the_girlfreind and ingi..
thank's alot. i'm not a 100% sure but i'm
like 90% sure lol just wanted to update
you on everything. 
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-02-07 12:04pm
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aww hun
im glad you updated us
so did you test or what?
stick around and we hope that you will
still be apart of the forums!!!!!!
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Little Miss Oops
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Posted: 11-02-07 12:14pm
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i did test and they both came back
negative but i did have my period. it was
way earlier than it should have been and
it was also not like it usually is that's
why im not totally ruling out the
possibility. lol and i will stick around i
like reading what so ppl experience and
how they deal with it. i learn alot from
these forums although i have no experience
to tell anyone anything like you guys do i
do like learning new things... lol i have
a question... it might sound stupid but
ive been wondering for a while what is
TTC?
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-02-07 12:20pm
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ahh you should post on here too! everyone
has expieriences with life no matter what
they are
i bounce around all the forums if i can
and try and help wherever someone needs
it!
you can learn alot by reading for sure but
you'd be suprised how much you learn about
yourself and how much knowledge you can
take with you in everyday life by
reaserching and posting for people who
have questions 
TTC means trying to concieve
or in other words trying to have a baby
lol at first when i came on here i didnt
know what it meant either!!!!!!!
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Little Miss Oops
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Posted: 11-02-07 12:31pm
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lol that makes me feel so much better!!! I
was actually really excited when i though
i was pregnant because i love babys and
kids and it being my own would make it all
that much better.. and like the only thing
i want to do in life is have my own
children lol idk if that sounds weird to
you but i don't want to go to college
because it's not gonna help me with what i
want to do.. Oh well maybe next time lol
haha.
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-02-07 12:35pm
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yeah i know what you meen
maybe you could look into trade school or
something instead of a big college? what
do you want to be?
im going to get my vet tech degree at a
trade school but thats it
you will have children eventually they are wonderful
gifts but a handful at the same time
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Little Miss Oops
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Posted: 11-06-07 11:07am
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lol i dunno what i want to be... nothing
even sounds good to me. we have a
community college here in my home town but
im not so sure i want to do it. my whole
goal now is just to get out of here and go
somewhere else. lol what are you having
and when is your due date?
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PenguinsRus
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Posted: 11-06-07 13:15pm
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Since you like kids so much, have you
thought about possible carreers involving
them? Maybe you can work in/run a daycare
or a preschool. You can be a teacher. If
you like psychology, maybe be a child
psychologist. That involves a lot of
school, though. You said that being a
parent is all you really want. You can
even be a nanny. I don't know if it's
just because I live in NYC so the pay is
good here, but I am a nanny, and I get
paid more than my boyfriend and he has a
college degree! It is also a very
rewarding job.
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Little Miss Oops
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Posted: 11-06-07 13:23pm
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i do love kids.... i have thought about
the careers involving them but there is
just so many and i can't just focus in on
one of them. and the schooling is a
problem to because i can't afford college
i am just really not sure what to do about
all of this lol. i thank you so much for
trying to help me. here where i live you
don't get high paying jobs unless you work
at a refinery and i refuse to work at one.
i just don't know...
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PenguinsRus
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Posted: 11-06-07 13:27pm
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From your profile, I see that you are only
17. That still gives you a lot of time to
think about what you want to be. Average
people change their career/jobs many times
before they find one that suits them.
Affording college is a problem for tons of
people. If you really do want to go,
there are many scholarships and loans out
there to help you out. If you don't,
there are still plenty of jobs out there
for you. I'm sure as time goes on, you
will be able to filter out which jobs you
enjoy and which jobs urk you.
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Little Miss Oops
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Posted: 11-06-07 13:31pm
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yes i am 17. i don't really want to go to
college to tell you the truth... but every
one keeps telling me to go because i'll
regret it or whatever... but im not sure
that i will because i can't stand school
as it is right now so i'm not so sure i
want to go to college.
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PenguinsRus
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Posted: 11-06-07 13:35pm
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Don't listen to other people. It is true
that college does get you a better paying
job, but it is your life. If having a job
without a college career makes you happy,
then go for it. Also, if you ever change
your mind, you can always go back to
college later in life or even enroll in an
online course. Also, it sounds cheesy,
but what really helped for me is going to
a career counselor. I was completely
clueless as to what I wanted to do, and
there were 50 things I wanted to be one
day, and nothing I wanted to be the next.
Going and talking to someone for just a
few hours who specializes in it helped me
realize what I really wanted in a job, if
I really did want/need to go to college or
not (I decided to go, but its not the
course for everyone), and helped me list
the pros and cons in possible jobs. She
set me on a course, but didn't force any
decisions on me.
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Little Miss Oops
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Posted: 11-06-07 13:39pm
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i'm happy with my life right now and i
haven't even graduated high school
yet...lol like you i am completely
clueless and yes one i would be like i am
gonna go to college then the next day i'm
just like i'm not going to college... yea
i know how it feels lol but i just hate it
feeling confused and not knowing what to
do at all...
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PenguinsRus
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Posted: 11-06-07 13:43pm
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That is true that you haven't even
graduated yet. Right now, live life in
the moment and enjoy what you have. Go
out with friends, finish up school, and
enjoy life! However, once you're out of
high school, you still have to have some
kind of an idea of what you want to do. I
wouldn't fret too bad now since you still
have time, but perhaps try to keep
potential ideas in the back of your head,
and maybe try a counselor like I did if
you think it'd help. Remember, you can
always change if you don't like what
you're doing in life. I hope things get
easier for you and you start to feel less
confused as time goes on.
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Little Miss Oops
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Posted: 11-06-07 14:18pm
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lol well thank you... one question though
how would i go about finding a counselor
to help me decide? your the first person
who has told me about this so i don't
really know how to go about it...
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PenguinsRus
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Posted: 11-06-07 14:28pm
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You can check the yellow pages under
career counseling. Also, try searching
here
http://www.nbcc.org/. It is a list of
certified counselors with degrees, and
there is a list of ones aimed towards
careers and helping you figure that stuff
out. You can locate them by where you
live.
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-06-07 22:30pm
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| cassie K
wrote: | | lol i dunno what i want to
be... nothing even sounds good to me. we
have a community college here in my home
town but im not so sure i want to do it.
my whole goal now is just to get out of
here and go somewhere else. lol what are
you having and when is your due
date? |
due date december 15th but they expect her
to come early 
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Little Miss Oops
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Posted: 11-07-07 12:51pm
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lol thanks sarah i appriciate it and
congrates suzy i'm very excited for you!!!
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Posted: 11-07-07 13:53pm
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| cassie K
wrote: | | lol well thank you... one
question though how would i go about
finding a counselor to help me decide?
your the first person who has told me
about this so i don't really know how to
go about
it... |
Don't all schools have guidance
counselors? You should check right in
your own high school for a guidance
counselor. That is who helped me go to
college and make decisions like that.
As far as working, what kind of work do
your parents do? Do they work at the
refinery?
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Posted: 11-07-07 13:58pm
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| cassie K
wrote: | | lol that makes me feel so
much better!!! I was actually really
excited when i though i was pregnant
because i love babys and kids and it being
my own would make it all that much
better.. and like the only thing i want to
do in life is have my own children lol idk
if that sounds weird to you but i don't
want to go to college because it's not
gonna help me with what i want to do.. Oh
well maybe next time lol
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| cassie K
wrote: | | lol i dunno what i want to
be... nothing even sounds good to me. we
have a community college here in my home
town but im not so sure i want to do it.
my whole goal now is just to get out of
here and go somewhere else. lol what are
you having and when is your due
date? |
Having a baby is not a career choice. You
need a way to pay for everything. The
reason people go to college (which is way
more fun than high school, and most people
can afford some form of college) is that
they get better jobs than people who
don't, for the most part.
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