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Posted: 11-01-07 23:46pm
AyaMiyaki
wrote:
the_girlfriend
wrote:
she said not to sit or stand
for a long period of time and the best
thing to do is lay down and watch some tv
with my feet propped
up
Wouldn't sitting for a long period of time
include being in a wheelchair or theater
seat? You said she said to lay down and
prop your feet
up.
yep but sitting in the car for 4 and a
half hours!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!thats too
long!
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monkeygirl22
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Posted: 11-01-07 23:48pm
That's absolutely right. You could be
there but would probably be stuck in a
waiting room with no sleep. Your daughter
is more important than the mall. I knew a
child here that was born at 36 weeks and
still had serious respiratory problems.
All babies develop at different rates.
It's just best for the baby to stay in as
long as she can and for you to do
everything possible to keep it there.
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 11-01-07 23:48pm
A movie's at least an hour and a half...
if you got there early that could easily
bump it to two, not to mention however
long you'd spend in the wheelchair
shopping for lotion and christmas
presents. I doubt it'd be a half hour
thing. Add two hours for shopping and
maybe a half hour to get there, and what
do you have?
4 and a half hours.
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 11-02-07 08:09am
I want pictures, Michelle!
Suzy, if your doctor told you to rest,
then that's what you should do. Period.
Going to the mall is not resting. I'm
glad that everyone explained to you the
dangers in not following your doctor's
orders. Premature labor is very serious
and can have lifelong effects on your
child.
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 11-02-07 11:18am
ok, i knowww you dont want to hear
this...but guess what...
u arent entitled to those mall trips,
saturday movies, trick or treating, and
socializing anymore.
that was a choice you made when you got
pregnant.
Its time you get your priorities in line
and stop being materialistic and selfish..
having the first thing come to ur mind be
trick or treating or going to the mall or
movies because you *just cant let go of
that teenager mentality* just doesnt and
CANT cut it anymore. No more designer
purses, no more trips to the mall.. no
more acting like a child, because a child
cannot raise a child.
If you didnt want to have to give up being
a child, you shouldnt have taken it upon
yourself to create on of your own. Now its
time to learn how to set an example.
i love u like a little sister, Suzy, and
this is why i tell u these things. If i
didnt care i would keep my mouth shut. As
would all the other girls who are giving u
advice like Laura and Mandi.
We tell you these things because we care,
not because we want to rag on you or make
u feel bad. WE HAVE BEEN THERE.. we know
what we are talking about. ^_^
**edited to add I HOPE U SLEPT WELL
MISH!!!**
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young Girl
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Posted: 11-02-07 12:21pm
thanks girls
i will take everyones advice and stay
home
i can order everything online its no
biggie