Wierd Problem Masturbating Posted: 11-01-07 17:38pm
Hi
i'm 16 and when i try and masturbate, i
always feel i need to stop a few seconds
before i cum
i don't know whether it's some
psychological problem, but as soon as i'm
approaching orgasm i can't go through with
it and have to stop, sometimes having to
push the cum back in as a sort of reflex
action
i've experienced this as long as i've been
trying to masturbate, so that i only ever
cum, when i have a wet dream, and even
then i try and hold it in, giving me a
really bad pain in my balls
i've not been able to find anything to do
with this on the internet, so any help or
advice would be appreciated
thanks.
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DigiNews
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Joined: 01 Nov 2007 Posts: 20
Posted: 11-01-07 21:39pm
Ok this is somewhat common and really it
depends on how your masterbating, to porn
or your mind. If to porn try making sure
your watching long videos insted of short
clips, having to do anything but please
yourself will no doubt create issues like
this. Also if your sitting upright when
masturbating try doing it laying down.
[nb, laws state you can't view porn but
well, we all do!]
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ivanhoe
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Joined: 31 Oct 2007 Posts: 9
Posted: 11-02-07 02:04am
I think it's only psychological problem. I
think you just have to relax and to
understand that you HAVE to go through
this. When you get close to orgasm just
continue masturbating and give yourself a
relief. When you go through this once, it
will be easier next time.
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anon44
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Joined: 01 Nov 2007 Posts: 2
Posted: 11-02-07 09:53am
ok thanks for the replies but its not
anything to do with the technique -
everythings fine until i'm about to come,
and then, even when i try to relax, as
soon as i feel anything is coming out, i
push it back in as a reflex
i have gone through with it a few times
but it doesnt seem to get any easier
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ivanhoe
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Posted: 11-04-07 08:02am
do it again and again...
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Posted: 11-02-08 15:02pm
anon44,
Did you say that you have never cum
through masturbation? You only cum through
wet dreams? If you can cum at all then it
means that this is physically doable. The
reverse would be true that if you couldn't
cum, ever during a wet dream then you may
have some sort of blocking occuring, but I
don't think this is the case. The other
suggestions here re this being
psychological may have some merit.
When you masturbate, do you find
yourself feeling emotions other than
"lustful horniness"? What I'm trying to
get at, is whether there is something else
on your mind, or perhaps when you first
started masturbating you did have
something bothering you or occupying your
thoughts thus causing you not to shoot.
Once the trend started, it could now be
the anticipation of nothing happening that
continues to stymie you in your pursuit to
ejaculate.
You should try to relax and enjoy
masturbating. Get some good porn (or
whatever turns you on) going and, has been
suggested, keep masturbating until you
ejaculate - don't stop when you think you
are about to blow, but instead, keep going
until you do so.
