Well girl, you gave me good advice in the past. I say, u tell him u dont need him, and tell ur friend u dont care if theyre together. Dont let him know it bothers u!! Whatever u do, or ull turn out like me!! But girl good luck. Im really sorry >

love mol

Josh has basically done that to me. That's why our relationship is over. Trust me, I know where you are comin from. I'll help you kill your jerk if you help me kill mine!

Ok so this is what I did tonight. I packed up all the little mementos that I thought would remind me of happy times (things he gave me as gifts) and a note saying that since he lied to me about her I have no real way of knowing that he truly cared for me for these years. I left it on his doorstep and I actually feel pretty good. And something else I havent mentioned, that a friend of mine from the past 2 years admitted to having a thing for me while my ex and I were together. Hes been helping me through this entire thing and he is going to come down and visit next weekend so we can spend time together. We're not looking for a relationship quite yet but just being good friends so that is the positive thing from this whole mess


meg

thanks you guys a bunch for the support!

Ive been on the other end of your situation and I got with this guy that I really liked even though he had been with my best friend and she still cared about him. I ended up with a stalker and lost my bestfriend. She will regret what she has done to you in the long run!

Omg jill derek this guy sonja is dating (my old bestfriend) he calls me at least once a week and tells my mom sh*t like im additced to e and I sleep with guys for money and he called last week sometime saying I was suppose to meet "rob" at a hotel!! I was liike come on problem!! I hate him and he mouthed my mom off!! And hes like 20 and acting like a 12 year old!!

Aww! I wish I had a male friend to help me through something like that! That is so sweet!!!


Blu

Its good to have you back blu! Am I just being really blind or have you not been here for a while? Or has meg's brain just gone bye bye? Thanks though he is really great to me and I am very fortunate to have him.


Mindless meg

Actually, you're right...I've been really crammed at work lately. Tomorrow is my first day off in a while. I usually try to get on, but most of the time it's really late at night so I just see if I get any email notifications of a reply to any of the posts i'm watching. Cuz most of the time i'm soo tired and I just want to go to bed. I try read the forum as much as possible though. I'll have plenty of time this week because I have off until saturday . It must be really great to have a friend like that. I think it's so sweet. (wait..I think I already said that. Lol )

blu