me and my best friend jessica has been
best friends since the 6th grade.and now
we are in the 12th.but i moved away from
her when we was in the 7th grade.ever
since i moved we have been talking on the
phone and writing to each and sending
pictures for 6 whole years! can you
believe it.but it went by fast.but before
i moved i use to go her house like every
other friday sleep over,i use to go places
with them.i knew her mom ,her aunt,her
uncle,her grandma, and her little brother
was so inlove wit me(he was 2,my little
baby danielito)(he`s 8 now)before i moved
we could not go one day without talking to
each other.now me and her still talk but
now we can go up to months without
talking.i have tried to talk to her more
than one time about this it`s like she
dont care about this friendship like it
do.and i hate to see it die,but this
friendship is all most gone,she says that
we are still bestfriends but she has a
boyfriend ,i have a boyfriend,and she has
other friends and i have other friends and
its like we are forget about each what can
do to put some life back into this
friendship.
p.s she only lives like 45 miles away from
me.maybe less than that.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 11-01-07 00:10am
I'm a bad person to post to this, because
I'm one of those people that stopped
talking to their friends after graduating
highschool. I moved every three years as a
kid so I never had any long term friends.
I can say that losing one friend is NOT
the end of the world. Friendships come and
go.
Also, yes. This post needs to be moved.
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very-confused
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Joined: 31 Oct 2007 Posts: 38 Location: ,
Posted: 11-02-07 09:31am
Eiri
wrote:
I'm a bad person to post to
this, because I'm one of those people that
stopped talking to their friends after
graduating highschool. I moved every three
years as a kid so I never had any long
term friends.
I can say that losing one friend is NOT
the end of the world. Friendships come and
go.
Also, yes. This post needs to be
moved.
sorry
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young Girl
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Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 13932 Location: everythings better in, texas USA
Posted: 11-02-07 12:10pm
huney sometimes life changes and people
change
a few very few people stay forever in your
life
its hard to let go of a good friend that
you care about but remember that life
changes dramatically excpecially in your
teenage years.
people move on and it keeps on going
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Verizon-y
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Posted: 11-02-07 17:08pm
I was on the other end from you, I was the
one not calling and my friend was hurt.
But she discovered that even if time went
by and we called each other, we were just
as happy to be talking to each other as
before.
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Brooklyn
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Joined: 02 Nov 2007 Posts: 1
Posted: 11-02-07 17:21pm
Wow, ease up on her ok?
Hey i think you should really tell her
what you just said. Tell her that you guys
are growing apart and that you don't want
that. Be honest. I know it's hard, but you
need to try. I had the same problem as you
too, you know. I just told my friend that
I didn't want us to grow apart, and that I
want to stay best friends. He took it
really good, he introduced me to his
friends and once a month we have a little
get together. You should totally do that
too! When you tell her this, don't call
her up, or text message or whatever. You
just need to get your butt over to her
house talk to her in person, and tell her
what you worry is happening. And if she
does't want to stay good friends with you,
then she should't be her best friend in
the first place if she is just going to
treat you like that. One more thing you
other people posting her messages, if you
don't have any helpful advice, ypur NOT
helping. Like the saying goes: If your not
part of the solution, you're part of the
problem.
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PenguinsRus
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Posted: 11-05-07 14:06pm
Friendships do come and go, and people
grow apart. You need to sit down and talk
to her. Relationships, whether it be a
romantic relationship, a friendly
relationship, a work/professional
relationship...they can't work without
proper communication. It may be hard to
sit down and talk about, but once you get
things out there I am sure you will both
feel much better.
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very-confused
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Oct 2007 Posts: 38 Location: ,
Posted: 11-13-07 15:21pm
i have talked to her face to face she says
that she is going to change and we agreeed
that we will hang out 2 or 3 times a month
at least(because of the distance)its been
going good so far let`s see how long this
can last thanks everybody ill keep you up
dated....
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anniek
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Posted: 11-13-07 15:34pm
Hope it goes well for you two. I lost alot
of good friends after highschool and you
know sometimes it still hurts, I miss
them! But I now have good friends who can
relate to my life now. At least you are
both willing to work on it!
