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Q: Should I Be Hurt?

asked by: little_woman on April 5th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Hey girls I wanted some opinions on this and anything will be appreciated. Wll my ex and I broke up (he dumped me) almost 3 weeks ago and we were together for 2.5 years. Anyway he called me and told me that he is now wanting to date a good friend of mine...She is the reason why we almost broke up after 6 months, he almost cheated on me with her. We got into a knock down drag out yelling match a couple of nights ago and he told me that now he is single and is going to take this chance with her and I have no right to stop him from being happy and to stop being selfish and be happy for him. How can I be happy for him? Hes hurting me so much by doing this he says he cares about my feelings but I dont know he has one hell of a way of showing it! Grrrrrrrr

mad as hell in oregon (yes I live in oregon) Evil or Very Mad

meg

p.S - I dont know who I should be angry at him or her but he says "shes my friend too so it doesnt matter what you think so stop acting like it does"

Replies(9)

JillMarie

replied on April 5th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

I think you should be mad at both of them! Tell them both how you feel and if they dont listen get rid of both of them from your life!

KariM18

replied on April 5th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

I agree with jill. A real friend wouldnt do that to u if she knows it hurts u..So if she does go for it, I would say f*ck her.. And w/ him.. Hes just a jerk obviously and hopefully u can just get him out of ur life. Goodluck hun! And u do have a reason to be mad and its not selfish so dont listen to him*

little_woman

replied on April 5th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

I have told them both how I feel but no matter what I say they are going to do what they want anyway. He is so convinced he is going to find happiness with her and when I talked to my close friends here they say that he is just trying to fill a void and it is not going to work. And this girl (i call her the evil one Twisted Evil

) says she has no feelings for him but she doesnt know what is there....This is so ****ed up. My one suggestion for my ex is to take the shrink wrap off his d**k and grow a set of balls and be a man

thanks for the responses jill and kari much appreciation and love

meg

kitty_55

replied on April 5th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Hey meg, I think if ur friend is going to date ur ex dont even talk or bother with her. Friendship is way more imporant than any guy is. My old bestfriend sonja lied to me and started seeing this guy I was. We arent friends nomore. I know it hurts alot it still hurts me and I havent seen her since 2 days after christimas. Ur ex is just trying to u off. Dont show it to him that it hurts and bugs you cuz than he knows he did a good job at it.

alison

pInKpAnThEr

replied on April 5th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Kill em both :d:d:d:d:d

smith8500

replied on April 5th, 2004

Especially eHealthy

Hey

Be pissed! Be very very pissed! Twisted Evil

SiobhannP2

replied on April 5th, 2004

New User

I agree. I think that if she was your mate she'd be there supporting you through this. I'm sure it's hard enough for you without having to worry about your mate doing this to you. If he's going to take it any further with your ex you just have to ask yourself do you really want or need a friend like that??? And at the end of the day it's their loss Smile

keep smiling honey xx

insurancegirl

replied on April 6th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

BbyBlu0602

replied on April 6th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Oh man that really bites! I'd be mad at them both honestly. It's really cold for your friend to do that to you and it's really screwed up that he'd go after your friend like that and be that cruel and harsh to you about it. Also, why should you be happy for him? Look what he did to you, if anything, you should be kicking him in the ballz!! Lol. He's obviously really dumb and immature if he's gonna leave you for your friend anyway. I wouldn't worry about it. I think you could do a lot better, you don't need someone who is gonna treat you that way! You go girl!!

Blu

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