I have been keeping this hush-hush so opinions will be greatly appreciated.

I've known my girlfriend Sigi for five years and we've been dating for four of those years. Just recently (less than half a year ago) I moved out of Italy to live with her in her hometown. Since moving in I noticed some things that might point to pregnancy. Though I haven't been keeping track of her periods, I think she's missed a few or is irregular. Also she's been really... touchy with little things she never had a problem with any other time. And her appetite has been askew not to mention she has been sick a few times. I don't want to sound mean but I don't want kids, not yet anyway. I'm really hoping it's a stomach bug or something besides a baby.

I know a few people will say to go out and get an over-the-counter test but I'd rather sign it over with her first. Before I do that I want opinions on how to handle what she might say when I bring it up, what happens if she is pregnant, etc etc. I'm a shy guy so posting this took an incredible amount of courage, please give me every opinion whether it be good or bad. I need it. Thanks,

Scott