My Son Hates His Mother

My son has flat responce, he Preoccupied with unsupported doubts about my wife ie his mother Is it Schizophrenia?

I'm sorry to hear this.
But I think that we all have very solid reasons to hate both of our parents.
I don't think that hating your mother is a good reason to be put on schizophrenic medication.
Shameful really.
I'm not saying totally hate your parents. There are also good reasons to like your parents. Although not many.
This is all a misunderstanding I think. There doesn't seem to be any communication whatsoever by what you are telling me, and if there is it would seem that it is not the right kind of communication, shrouded in unknowing. And it would seem that none of you in this circle try and understand what the other is going through.

Try and get at the heart of it. Why does he hate her, you didn't include that. Have you asked him why he feels like this? Although he may not be intelligent enough to explain it, that's always a problem.

C'mon man, you don't dislike your parents at all?
Would you prefer to share anything with us?
There are no reasons for you to dislike your parents?

My dear woops, after 2 years if suddenly a son start saying tht her mom pampered him just as a show off, used to brings cloths and everything just to show the world that she loves her son. Now when she cries to see him, he rather becomes violent for mother is showing again and making his position awkward b4 others. I wanna assure u this is the same son who was not tired saying Mom, Mom....! She is still the same but after my son left for other town for studies, slowly he changed and started avoiding mother. About his mother he doesn't agree with me , for all other things he is too dosail. What 2 do?

Hey there, it's obvious there are some issues. It could be that there are things about your wife you don't know, it could be a mental illness, it could be a substance abuse issue.

There is not enough information there to decide if he is schizophrenic or not.

Does he only have disturbed thoughts about his mother? Do they impair his occupational or social functioning?

Dear wirch, Yes he has only disturbed thoughts abt her which certainly impair his occupational & social functioningn he cudn't concentrate in his studies and spoiled his 2 years with blank n disturbed mind, otherwise he is very intellegnt As per him, whenever he thinks of his mother, he thinks n thinks n keep thinking n his nurves becomes tight. There are no big issues, even he told to counculr, he himself doesnt know why so much of hate. issues are, mother has fobia of cleanliness, mother was critical abt our family friends n relative etc n he says she poisond his mind. Normally all housewives keep disscussing such issues as usual, bt otherwise she was too nice to everybody on forfront, greets n attends everybody. She is too good by heart, concluding with this that she is doing only showoff and thn hatred of extrem level to curse her to death is difficult to understand. Yes my wife didn't like a girl, a close relative of ours, 9 years elder unmarried cousin sister to my son, whom v supported for her career n advanced studies. Yes later I knew tht unlike a cousin sister, she was very close to him (earlies for more thn a year she was living with us only. thn later also shifted very near to my son's premises in the same city for her studies, where my son had gone for his studies, v were thnking she is taking gud care of our son) probably they had sum ellicit physical relations too. My wife had smelled something since the girl came to our house while my son was just 17 n used to ask my son to get away frm tht girl n concentrate in studies, (as usual like any mother of this world). My son says critisizing tht girl is not the issue for hatred 2wards mother, ths iz hs own thinking and tht girl has not prompted. I'm also sure tht girl wll not instigate any such thng as she was benefiited by us in way of gr8 financial n emotional support n she was too close to all of us(yes frm inside my wife was ws against any such support to tht girl, which my son knew) . B4 3-4 months only I have come to know abt their close relations n wth my directive, most probably they hv departed( there wr sum of their own issues of disputes too). BUT MY SON'S HATRED IS TWO THREE YEARS OLD,WHICH HAS RUIND OUR FAMILY N LEFT US OUT OF PIECE. HE HAS ATTEMPTED SUICIDE ALSO, WHENEVER I ASKD HIM TO COME TO OUR HOME. Wht to do?

Ya know, your right, you are always right man.
Why would he hate his mother, he has no good reason to.
I mean, she bestowed upon him such a wonderfully bloody gift, why wouldn't he like life and in turn his mother.

If anyone has reason to have very bad feelings about their mother its me, she put me through hell growing up, shes an addict and I strongly beleive she has an undiagnosed mental condition as well, but she is STILL my mommy and I LOVE HER, I think this is basically the norm, that we love our mothers even if they do wrong with us, if your son wasnt THAT full of hate I would say he sounds just spoiled, but the level of his hate that it even disrupts his studies and hes attempted suicide make it seem like something much deeper-you really need to have your son checked up for mental illness-best wishes

Yeah, those mothers are some of the worst, in my eyes anyway.
But from non partial eyes, they are all just one big monstrous entity aren't they?