Ok, here's the scoop. About four months ago my bestest friend Ashley got pregnant. I got really, really mad at her and told the school councilor about what happened, but truthfully, I did it out of love not because I was mad at her. Meanwhile, Ashley broke the news to her parents. They were ok with it, but her Grandmother took her out of her will blah blah blah words and words and stuff.
She had the option to have an abortion but she didn't take it. She didn't tell me why but it was written on her face. She wanted her boyfriends baby! He's 13 and she's 14!!!!! Time passes and stuff, about two weeks.
The real problem is this though, she lives in this really, really old house with this big, lovely carved staircase in the foyer. I slept over that night at her hosue when I heard her crying. I woke up and discovered she wasn't there so I ran around the house looking for her and where do I find her? At the bottom of the stairs sitting in a pool of her own blood, she was a little over five months, I think but I'm not sure. I asked her what happened and she said she tripped down teh stairs while coming down for some coffee, but I know for a fact that she hates coffee, at first I thought it was one of those weird cravings you get, but then I realized that maybe she threw herself down the stairs... a miscarriage.
I really, really don't know what to tell her. She looks up to me like a little sister, (Although we're only about a month apart,) and I want to help her, but I don't know what to say.
What should she do? Where can she go for help? Should I be mad at her? Does she need any surgery? Ash isn't hurting or anything, but her period stopped, and she occasionally feels serging pains creeping up and down her back like a, 'clothsline' she says.
Any advise would be appreciated but please, let me know if there's anything I can do! I know there might not be much, but still if I can hold up some emotional support, what should I say?
Thanks for reading!!!
Love, kittykute