Trouble Getting An Orgasm Posted: 10-29-07 14:26pm
I'm 19 and I've sex before but I was never
able to get off. I usually go for over an
hour and still nothing. It feels good but
I just can't get to a climax. Hand-jobs
and blow-jobs don't work either. I know
I'm not gay because there's nothin that I
love more than a great pair of tits, but
this is a major problem. I can do it
myself but it seems when my girlfriend
does it, I can't concentrate.
Also, my girlfriend started giving me
hand-jobs and they feel really good but
instead of having an orgasm, my whole body
goes numb and my penis goes soft. It's
not a bad numb but I never heard of it
before. This uually happens about 10-15
minutes in. If anyone's got any advice
that would be great!
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Georgia59
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Posted: 11-02-07 13:57pm
I would check in with your doc, that seems
strange. You want to make sure that it's
not a neurological problem or anything.
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PassionFlowerLover
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Joined: 05 Sep 2006 Posts: 23 Location: US
Posted: 12-04-07 14:31pm
I noticed you posted this in october so i
was wondering if you had found any info
since then?
My bf has the exact same problem. He says
it feels good but he cannot reach climax.
He can if he masturbates with or without
me in the room. He also has the exact same
experience when I try to give oral sex or
a hand job.
If you have found any info, or if anyone
else has info, that would be great.
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nissanguy
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Dec 2007 Posts: 2
Posted: 12-07-07 15:01pm
I had the same problem too.....could get
an erection no problem stuff....but just
couldent climax no matter how long we did
it. I had two major contributers to why
this happened. 1 being my mindset when I
was having sex with my girlfriend...and 2.
my foreskin dident really retract when
having sex covering my glands, like maskin
the stimulation. When i first started
having sex about 3 years ago, when i had
sex i was just worrying about pleasing my
GF, and what if im not doing something
right and just thinking about everything
under the sun except just doing her lol.
Just get in the mindset say if you were
watchin porn..calm....relaxed....(without
thinking of the girls in the porn ) lol
and just focus on the pleaser and how
horny you are. If that doesnt work then I
suggest seeing a Doc...this is just my
personal experiance.
